see him i cant help but smile. but there is just this on thing he has a g.f and i heard that he might be abusive so i ask him about it and he said he wasn't but him and his g.f are getting along right now. her parents are mad at him for something. and i dont know what it is cause i didn't ask him but he told my friend that it was because he was asking way to may question like *who was there? where the boys? what did you wear? what did you talk about* stuff like that but i really dont think that her parents would get mad over that, i think that he might have hurt her. and i dont know what to do. but i love him so much i mean he is my everything. I will just sit her looking at his pictures.. and listen to sad music, everytime i see him i just smile from ear to ear.. he leads me on like he might like me but i dont know cause i think he likes her and his not going to give her up for me and i dont want him. soo can someone help me i dont know what to do..i love him with all my heart. <3
2006-07-31 20:03:09 · 11 answers · asked by ...♥BeautifullyBroken* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he already knows that i like him. soo his not going to leave his g.f like that.
2006-07-31 20:08:01 · update #1
OH you really like this guy,,...=(
You gotta be careful and open your eyes, don't be blind if he is a bad guy, I don't know...
How long have they been together for?
I mean if he knows you like him ...why is he with her?
Maybe because he knows he can have you anytime he wants,
If he likes you and he likes another girl too, ,,,, he knows he already got you, and he'd probably go for the other girl 'cause he knows that after breaking up with her, you will be still there.
My advice is to make him feel like he loses you, .... go out with another guy to make him jealous and act like if you don't like him (your friend the one you like) anymore. But you gotta do it well, he doesn't have to notice that you are just doing it to make him jealous.
2006-07-31 20:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Special R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry you feel this way about him but the way i see it is very obvious. You need to move on and meet other people because 1) He has a girlfriend already. You dont want to be the girl to break up their relationship and be a homewrecker now do u? 2) if the rumors are true and he is a abusive then why would you want anything with a guy like that. stay away!
I know its tough to hear and hard to make your heart not feel something it yearns for but it's reality. you just need a good girls night out and meet nre guys. There are GREAT guys out there that arent abusive and is single. trust me on it.
2006-08-01 03:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by nosferatu910 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think this guy sounds like trouble in the long run, if he has this reputation at this point i wouldn't suggest you having anything to do with him but a simple friendship. I always believe that what's yours is yours only. If he's in a relationship with someone else the last thing you want is to be the one that split them up, and if he leaves his girlfriend all of a sudden for you for any reason whatsoever, what makes you think he won't do the same with you when another girl more interesting than you (in his eyes) crosses his way? I just think he sounds shallow and more interested in his personal needs then his partner's. Soooo... if you take my advice or not just be careful, you sound as if you like him alot, and like they say " the bigger they are, the harder they fall " in other words the worse it'll be if he dissapoints you in any way. Anyways, G'luck with whatever you decide.
2006-08-01 04:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lexus-Nut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents don't tend to like their daughters boyfriend but they could have a good reason. The abusive part is probably just rumors but I would be careful. Don't do anything until he is single. When he is I would start flirting and finding out his feelings are for you. If all goes well you will have him as a boyfriend but don't ruin or complicate his current relationship. If he ends up being abusive dump him immediately and make sure you get help.
2006-08-01 03:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Aries187 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok what i would do is talk to his gf and ask her about there relationship and if she asks y just tell her u were consirned. And if she seems really intrested then just leave them alone and time will tell. i know u probabaly feel like u need to break them up bu tif he finds out u did he will get mad and u may loose your chance of ever being with him so just sit back and realax and enjoy life and stop worrying.
2006-08-01 03:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by Me and ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. I suggest researching more on his background and the real reason why her parents are mad at him... Are you and the guy friends? My advice is that you don't want to get in the middle of their relationship. Just live on with your own life for now. Take care and God bless ^_^
2006-08-01 03:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Complicated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you just described of this person is the definition of a control freak and could be very abusive......dont even think about it girl......not only is he taken but he is a bad catch....
2006-08-01 03:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you like him. If he dumps his gf and goes for you then you live happily ever after.. if not.. move on.
2006-08-01 03:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep trying he'll get tired of her probally
2006-08-01 03:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by hopeless.... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a girls says....i like this guy, but...run, the but is the problem
2006-08-01 03:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by dwill604 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋