I have a friend that knows everything about me. I had a boyfriend that i loved deeply. Me and my boyfriend had problems and we brokeup. We kept contact and still would see eachother once in a while. My bestfriend new about this. About 1 week from the last time i had been with him he calls me and tells me that he needs to talk with me. So we met at my bestfriends house. He told me not to get mad, but that he had "made out" with my bestfriend. I asked him how many times and he said twice. I walked away and went inside and gave her a look and walked out. She came out and stopped me and wanted to know what was wrong and i told her "u know whats wrong" arround this time my x passed by us and left. Well i confronted her about it and she didnt deny it i asked her how many times and she said once. I told her he said twice and she denied it. Now. I didn't forgive him, but should i forgive her?
2006-07-31 20:07:57 · 20 answers · asked by BERONICA R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
(I had a similar problem B4) You're mad at both of them- that's OK, cuse' you have the every right to. And holding that anger will just get you MADDER, which is really bad, cuse' U'll get get madder& madder later on. So LET GO... but DON'T 4GET...
PS. BTW, B4 U let go... how about a lil' sweet revenge??? Just a lil' innocent one will do... it'll make U feel better :)
2006-07-31 20:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
How long were u together? How long has she been your friend? And how close were the 2 of you, did she have your back? Is a guy worth a good friendship? Why in the world would he even have said anything to you about it? You think maybe it did happen once and he wanted it to happen more then that and cause she felt to guilty said no to him so he decided to get her back by telling you? And besides it was only a lil make out not anything else. I would give her one more chance cause a good friendship is hard to find. Work it out with her tell her how this made you feel and if you give her a chance she better never ever do it again. once shame on you twice shame on me three times forget it!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-07-31 20:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by dmestle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He forgave all mankind. If Had no longer His lack of existence ought to represent no longer something, yet He did. even if it develop into awful i don't think of the betrayal or perhaps the crucifixion were the more serious area for Jesus. merely imagine about the prayer in the backyard, previously His betrayal. He develop into so tormented he sweat blood and water. He knew He develop into going for the first time in eternity be separated from the daddy, thoroughly decrease off. He had continually had a tremendous bond, they as one, and for a short time they could be 2. i do not recognize once you have ever been so in love they 2of you're like one. merely imagine in case you knew previous to time you've been going to be torn aside. yet, regardless of this Christ's love develop into so tremendous He forgave them because He knew those adult males were getting used with suggestions from devil. devil is the authentic enemy, he makes use of our anger, confusion, unhappiness, damage, soreness...... To wreck one yet another, we do not even comprehend it it really is why Jesus stated "Forgive them they do no longer recognize what they're doing."
2016-11-27 05:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive her and forget about the loser boyfriend cause he was really wrong to call u over to your best friends house to tell u that. He was trying to start a fight and it sounds like he's not worth the trouble
2006-07-31 20:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by jdhmusic3029 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should forgive her. The operative statement in your story is that you "broke up" with him. He was single and she was single. You can't expect to keep a good man on hold. Be happy for her and don't let a piece of cock come between you.
2006-07-31 20:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he was your X, so why would you still think you have any right or control over his or your friends lives. They are free agents. Also unforgiveness only hurts you. While you're being angry and bitter, they are getting on with their lives. So forgive and get on with your life. Unforgiveness can also led to health problems.
2006-07-31 20:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Rockin' Ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as for me if u love u boyfriend so much is not else to giveup the one u cal u bestfriend have betary u by going to bed will u boyfriend but if she taik u that she sorry u can forgive
2006-07-31 20:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by babalola f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, itz not her fault since you've broken up with ur ex. he's free to make out with anyone since he's single now. as for ur friend, itz not wrong for her technically as she's single. but as ur best friend, itz not really right for her morally to do so.
there is no right or wrong in this kind of situation. ur fren has been frank with the fact that she's made out wit ya ex. if u cherish the friendship, she still worth it.
2006-07-31 20:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is yes, forgive her. And don't hold it against her. Unless you're really angry and wouldn't mind losing her as a friend. If that is the case, full steam ahead.
2006-07-31 20:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beronica,
Thanks for the question.
You need to discuss it with your friend calmly and let her you know how you feel.
I would still remain close but not as close as I was before until you feel that she has learned her lesson.
I hope you can work things out.
Regards
2006-07-31 20:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋