Please help me understand the physche of a man . . . I was a faithful and loving wife for 13 years and believed the same of my husband. Without warning he demanded a divorce and the facts have come out over time that he had multiple affairs throughout our entire marriage. I was devastated as I trusted him fully and worked very, very hard to please him. Since he left he has been very cruel to me, refused to abide by the divorce decree regarding support, alimony and visitation and is now fighting for the kids after he has remarried and had another child. Can anyone shed some light for me on this behavior for me so that I can understand and get closure? I simply feel like yesterday's garbage that was thrown to the street. I have heard that 70% of men have affairs - is this true? Are there any of you out there that honestly, really are faithful and hold that vow as sacred and would not betray it? Or is it really reality that men will always betray and I should just accept that?
2006-07-29
01:35:31
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Joe
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Marriage & Divorce