Ok I always have a problem keeping a girl because Most of my friends are girls, I mean pretty much all of them that have been friends with me for a very long time, but no girl that i have dated has learn to except that. There's always jelousy problems and its not like I talk to my friends on a daily bases. What should I do about that.
2006-07-29 01:35:21 · 7 answers · asked by wcenice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well as a girl I know how that can feel because one of the guys I dated was the same way, and needless to say it pretty much always made me feel jealous because I wasn't sure if he was just friends or what with them. Even if he said that he was still friends, I still got anxious. So listen. This is something you're just going to have to accept when you date. My mom said that before she got married she had a lot of guy friends (she hardly has any now cause of my dad) and the same thing happened with my aunt who just got married. If you want to date you're gonna have to learn to be careful around the girl, ok? you're not doing anything wrong, but she can't see that. So if she's not around that's cool but don't do anything in front of her, that's stupid.
2006-07-29 01:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by jamie_unsolved 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is actually a good sign if you have female friends. If you're unwilling to bring your girlfriend along to a get-together, that might be a sign there is something fishy going on, like some of these women might be a potential mate.
Your girlfriend needs to take responsibility for her emotions, although you might want to take them into consideration. If you always approach it the same way, you'll possibly keep getting the same results.
If you are stongly coupled with your girlfriend and she understands you care for her, that will cover a lot of bases. If you don't act low-key and flaunt your other friends (like bragging) you are in trouble.
I have female dance partners and my new girl hasn't gone dancing with me yet. I brought my camera and showed my friends her picture and how they said she has a pretty face. I told her about throwing one of my "little college-aged friend" in the air so she is informed about what I'm up to and understands my dance buddies aren't a threat to her. However, she has to own her reaction. You can't do boo about that.
2006-07-29 08:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like to think that they are your whole world. When you have lots of friends that are women, women know that other women always try to manipulate men into something. Whether it is a relationship, fling or just a friend a girlfriend wants to be all of these, plus if you get into one little fight and run to one of your friends which are all women, then a woman would want to comfort you, it's only in our nature.... see why there would be a problem with that....
2006-07-29 08:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date one of your friends
2006-07-29 08:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by spyderman1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. maybe date one of your friends.. nah just before meeting your gf with your fr tell her that she has no reason to be jealous. She must understand . GL
2006-07-29 08:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by Peps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the new girl that you used to be gay and they are your gay hoes, but that you converted when you saw her and want to change your ways with her help.
2006-07-29 08:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in her place. How would you deal with it if your girlfriend had mostly male friends?
2006-07-29 08:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋