do you think it's proper to get married to someone you have only known for two weeks?

Answer 1

no way..that's crazy talk..they could be a psycho or sommat!

Answer 2

It is not proper, wise or any other word relating to maturity. It is immature and impulsive to even consider such a thing. You might get lucky, but who wants to depend upon blind chance in such an important matter? My younger brother and my sisters all jumped into and out of several marriages...so I can give you benefit of their sad experiences. They'd never learn if they lived forever. Both sisters married 3 times. One is still married, but she had a boyfriend recently. My brother died at age 37, else he would've married a 3rd time I'm certain. Know someone well for two years, not 2 weeks, before marrying him. Be certain you know the worst about him and that he knows the worst about you. All too many people pretend to be nicer than they really are and "let down their hair" after marriage. No wonder, divorce rate is high.

Answer 3

Two weeks?!
Why the rush? Is it someone going back to war? is it someone who needs papers? is it someone who needs to be married to get an heritage?
Surely you don't know someone well enough after two weeks to contemplate spending the rest of your life with that person!
What do you know about that person's family? likes, dislikes, what makes them angry?
Do you think you are on the same wave lengths about savings, bringing up children? Who would be responsible for what etc...?
Honestly, although it's no garantee that you'll know that person better even if you had spent 25 years together, I do think that 2 weeks is a recipee for disaster!

Answer 4

well my mom does it all the time know that person for 2 weeks and got married and didn't last for 8 months or less. I asked my wife to married me. we only know for 4 months and come out we married for 9 years and two beautiful kids and working on 3rd child.

Remember this we to talk alot what will happen if we got married and sthing went wrong about anything and we always still talk about it and we do trust eachother so much and we both are givers and we do very happy in love eachother alot.

So make sure talk about marriage and talk about if we have kids, which school you want to put them in? Private school, Public school, or at home? stuff like that so many to talk about before getting married it a biggest thing about marriages. and we do know and glad to make it work.

Answer 5

If I were you, I would wait at least a year. And in the process, I would do everything in the world I could to get to know the other person. So no, I would whole heartedly advise you to NOT ask this person to marry you just after two(2) weeks.

Answer 6

sometimes when you meet people you know right away that the person is going to be your husband or wife. my finance and i both have never been ones who believe in love at first sight but when I met him by the end of the week & we kissed i knew that i was going to be his wife and that i was in love with him. we are getting married in 2008 and we are very happy & very much in love, so i don't think that it's something wrong with loving or being in love with a person, but i would give it a little time just to make sure that your personality coincide and that you two will be happy together, b/c no one wants to get married and then divorced

Answer 7

I really don't think that it is proper to get married to someone that you don't even know. You are making a promise to spend the rest of your life with a person that you don't even know if you can spend the rest of the month with.

Answer 8

Absolutly not - im into a six year relationship and planned to wed early this year, and due to other halfs behaviour had to cancel. So even after that long you are still learning. Hope you make the right choice for you, but if you love him enough to be his wife, abit of time wont hurt as you have got the rest of your lives together.

Answer 9

no!because you have got to get to know the person first 2 weeks is only 14 days in able to be in a realationship you have to trust that person that when you leave he/she is not with another girl you have to relie on that person to make sure he wants u 4 u and not just sex you have to have respect for each other so if he/she want sex and he/she does not want 2 then you will be able 2 wait and he/she will to i say you should at least be together for like 2 years get engaged and then when you think you know him as good as u should then i would say marry him but make sure if you want sex with him you got 2 be married so if he does'nt leave you like a ***!! anyways i think it is just plain stupid so i hope you choose the right answer plus if you both have a job have a house and money to pay for diapers and bottles and clothes and bills and the house and he/she partner and everythig else out there then i say youre soo-soo ready but if u dont...then i would say...WAIT!!!

Answer 10

I doubt the divorce rate is any lower than regular couples, after the first year. Marriage is about commitment, and can work if you both are willing to put in the effort. But you might want to get to knwo the person a little better first...how about a few dates first (or a background check!).

Answer 11

Somtimes it is good only but in our country (india) most of the times it is better, because once you spend 1, 2 or more months or years with someone and therafter you marry him or her then both of you know each other but if you get married with someone to whom you knows only from one or two weeks then your married life will go littlebit slower but smoother, because it will take two to three years to both of you to understand each other and the period of your married life will make you both "lovers".