This whole thing started when I basically got tired of having the same fight over and over, of looking at our relationship and seeing the same cycle of being accosted for sex, or dealing with weird moods, or having you not talk to me about whatever is bothering you. You know how much I talked about finding balance.
My concern was never you touching me, or anything like that. My concern was always the way you seemed to constantly obsess about the relationship: you obsessed about the relationship ending, or what was or wasn't happening in the relationship, or me getting calls from girls, or whether or not we loved each other, or whether we had sex too early, or whether anyone was cheating, whatever. When I started the relationship I told you that you were the best girlfriend I have ever had, because we could keep things fun and calm and not obsessive. Now it's obsessive, frantic, and not that fun. And the fact is, I don't sense any commitment to the relationship. All I see is a desire t
2006-07-28
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