2006-07-28 05:35:04 · 9 answers · asked by sabrina1501us 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The main problem is that he has this bi-polar problem that he doesnt have medicine for, he was on medicine as a child, but as he grew older he quit taking it. Now i suffer. He is either really hot or really cold. and when we separate he cries to me, begs me back, we've done that a hundred times, but now our child is in the picture, and it cant that unstable. we both love our son SOOO much, he is our centerpiece, we love each other, but i cant handle his mood swings, his jealousy, he treats me like im a suspect at all times. like he is my interrogator, even when i just go to wal mart. i still love him, but i dont know how much more i can handle, and i dont know how long i;ve been saying that. im stuck.
2006-07-28 06:55:52 · update #1
Try to write him a letter telling him how you feel.
2006-07-28 05:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depnds on the extent of your relationship. Are you married? Are you living together? How long have you been together? I know it's hard to walk away, but if you're not married, your kid (i'm sure) doesn't want to see mom and dad arguing, or even be hostile towards each other. Maybe some time away from each other might help. "distance makes the heart grow fonder". get some breathing room from each other. Hopefully you'll both remember how you felt about each other in the first place. Kids tend to put a lot of pressure on a relationship, too. If you're married, go for counseling. Try to make it work. But either way, try to talk it out and express your feeling without pointing fingers and yelling. Listen more than you talk and try to understand what the other person was really angry about.
2006-07-28 05:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by enigma_in_pieces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap him and tell him to shut up!
No really, if it's not working out between you two, the best thing is to separate. The child will be better off with parents that are separate and happy than with parents that are together and angry all the time. Believe it or not...they can feel the tension between you guys. Try dating again. Get a babysitter, go out and do "grown up things", something that doesn't involve kids. Don't talk about kids, don't talk about the cute thing he/she did the other day, just concentrate on you...and him. Hope everything works out!
2006-07-28 05:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by pacammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you go out with each other, like you used to?
Get back to the basics that attracted you together in the first place.
Remember, before your child arrived, it was you & he in the relationship.
You've adjusted for the kid, but don't lose yourselves in your kid.
p.s. Well, you didn't add that in your question.
Having dated a gal who was bi-polar, read - manic/depressive- I suggest you leave.
Otherwise, all you're going to be doing for the rest of your life is vent on places like this, or to your friends.
2006-07-28 05:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do don't stay together for the kids sake, your child would do better if you guys were seperated and happy than together and miserable. Plus children absorb everything, our feelings our attitudes why predispose him/her to a life of emotional pain.
2006-07-28 05:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are fighting about. Have you guys tried counseling? Fighting is never good around children.
You need to decide if it is worth staying in this relationship. If so, work it out and try counseling!
2006-07-28 05:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont fight in front of the kid,second try to find a way for stop fighting,speak with him,listen to him
2006-07-28 05:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of how this is afecting your child and how it will later on in life
2006-07-28 05:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by letta g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both grown up adults....STOP FIGHTING
2006-07-28 05:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋