i was w this guy for almost a yr. and a few months bak he got into drugs. he kept on telling me so many times he would stop. and he didnt like doing it. needless to say, here we were 5months later, and he only got WORSE and treated me and my family WORSE!!! i decided i couldnt take it no more. and left. he wouldnt leave me alone, i told him to change and PROVE it to me, or i dont want to even talk to him. then he continued on w drugs while lying to me. he is beyond repair. i fell in love with this guy more than my x husband, and i have tried everything in my power to help him. ? is... its so hard for ME to move on, how do i do it w these circumstances?
2006-07-28 05:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by kkaze 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since it is a guy... if they say that they will change.. they really wanna hold on to you and keep you for longer...but by not changing all they are doing is hurting the one they love so if you can't handle it anymore....dump him
2006-07-28 05:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your situation and my advice to you is let him go. If you tell him he has to seek some help and get cleaned up or there is no hope for a relationship with you it will work if he is truly in love with you. I let my guy go. We continued to communicate but he finally realized that what I had told him I meant. There could be no us until he got cleaned. After a year he did and we were going to be married but the drugs had taken their tole on his body and he had a heart attack. He was the great love of my life and I will never love another like I loved him. I did find love again and you will to if he doesn't straighten up.
2006-07-28 05:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by hootywho 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you still love him...try to help him out. Stand by your man if he loves you. Take him to rehab. He'll be thankful later and will respect you. But if you're tired of his ****, leave his *** and move on. There's no way you can improve with a man like that. He'll pull you down everytime you try to help him.
2006-07-28 05:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont blame urself, remember this: he is the ONLY person who can make himself quit. You need to leave him alone for the time being because he could get to the point where he goes into debt with some dealers and then they could be able to connect you with him and that could get you into something you dont deserve to be involved with... I know its hard but LEAVE HIM ALONE....
2006-07-28 05:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lilstrawberry112 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make a list of the good and bad characteristics of this guy, if there are more bad then good you will notice that it really its time to move on, there are better guys out there for you!
2006-07-28 05:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by laurennn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him be & change your attitude towards him from control to freedom!
2006-07-28 05:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cool Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose him...you made the right decision to leave..stick with it!
2006-07-28 05:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by tharedhead ((debajo del ombú)) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him he will never change
2006-07-28 05:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by Neil G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋