Family & Relationships - 26 July 2006

Every time we have intercourse my husband has to put his fingers in my rear entry. It is rather annoying but it seems to be the only way he ever comes. What can I do to get it across to him that it is ok every now and again but not every time. I have told him before but he is convinced I am just saying it and I really love it.

2006-07-26 14:57:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you mind if your other half (boyfriend/girlfriend, wife/husband, fiance/fiancee etc) has male/female friends? or hangs out with them?
To what extent is your possessiveness over your other half?
Is not liking your other half mixing with the opposite sex overboard?

2006-07-26 14:56:48 · 3 answers · asked by Raven Hood® 4 in Singles & Dating

How can I talk to her about it?

2006-07-26 14:55:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-26 14:54:29 · 1 answers · asked by A soldiers wife 4 in Friends

What do you think of a 39 year old man who is at his mom's house EVERYDAY! They call each other every single day. She calls him and asks for favors everyday...and he goes. She does things for him too. Gives him gas money and gives him food. He works full time! She is not an invilid (Sp). Nothing wrong with her. She drives and works full time job! What is up with them two?! She live about 20 minutes away, and he will drive there sometimes two or three times a day...for what??? Is that normal?

2006-07-26 14:53:44 · 27 answers · asked by Author Al 4 in Family

I live w/ my mom, have an 8 mo. old daughter, & am taking 18 units this semester, so theres NO time for a job & I have nowhere else to go. I give her what I can out of fin. aid & buy stuff for the house(shampoo, food, etc.) & clean up. You couldn't even tell theres a baby around by how kept up I keep her stuff. I'm not rude, messy , or loud. despite all this, I get crabbed at almost 24/7, am told to "get out & get a life" yet be a 'good mommy' @ the same time, am questioned if I pop up w/ any $(if it's not stolen first), noone will stay out of my room & I can't even have a lock on the door besides a rinky-dink knife can open it one. Also, I have to nurse the baby every 4 hrs, but am told to stop "sitting on my lazy fat a$$ all the time". I know these may sound like teen/kiddie complaints, but I'm 21 yrs old! I have nowhere else to go & no way to make that happen @ this point, but I deserve some amt. of respect. How do I get it?!(btw, I've tried asking &talking nicely, it hasn't worked)

2006-07-26 14:53:07 · 7 answers · asked by What Dreams May Come 5 in Family

2006-07-26 14:53:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to do something for him. maybe tomarrow. i dont have a car of my own so I cant just take him somewhere....he almost wrecked his new car because it peels out at turns,ble wthe tire, got grounded from his car till first report card, and now his sieter is in the hospital..I jus...among other circumstances he more than deserves something i just dont know what to do under the circumstances. can someone please help me?

2006-07-26 14:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Miss. Advice 3 in Singles & Dating

ok my best friend we been friends for 13 years been threw everything well her life got turn upside down. well she was in a serious car accident she was pregnant and lost the baby. here the bad thing she probably can't have kids i love her like she my sister we been threw all this stuff well she wont talk to me about anything... i am scared that if she don't talk to me about this it will make her depressed... what makes it even worst her ex boy friend is being a jerk to her... he came to the hospital and was like i came to make sure the baby was dead that isn't right at all.. what should i do to help her and get her to open up to me because i hate seeing her hurting like this???

2006-07-26 14:51:28 · 11 answers · asked by lil_carebear42069 1 in Friends

I fell for this married guy. I am married also. This guy and I don't spend alot of time together but he always tells me that he loves me. The times that we are together it is limited. He calls me and treats me all good. He doesn't do anything to disrespect her though. That's why our time is always limited. Do you think he really love the both of us. He once told me that if he was a single man he had no doubt in his mind that he would move me in with him.

2006-07-26 14:50:54 · 27 answers · asked by Ms. Cool 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you had to choose only one.

2006-07-26 14:50:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-26 14:50:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am still in love with my x since 1999. i can't get over him what do i do. We still have a friendship and i know that does not help me with my situation. the truth to why i don't want to let go of the friendship is because i still hope that he might one day want the same thing i do which is to get back 2gether. He tells me that we will never get back together but he is always giving me mixed feelings. He tells me about his relationships (sexual incounters) and when i ask him if he loves her he says "no, she is just convinient". If he knows how i feel about him and if he does not want me to hold on why doesn't he just not tell me he loves her and let me go does : I AM CONFUSED:

2006-07-26 14:49:53 · 9 answers · asked by semret A 1 in Singles & Dating

what present should I give to my brother for his sweet 16 birthday? he's the skater type and thinks he's totally cool. The present can't be over 60 dollars/euro and I have to be able to get it within two weeks. PLEASE HELP

2006-07-26 14:49:49 · 10 answers · asked by GirliGirl 3 in Family

2006-07-26 14:49:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-26 14:49:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and are still so in love. Sometimes we both express actual pain (like in the stomach or chest) and have attributed this to love. Is that weird???

2006-07-26 14:48:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had this bay friend and he loved me. One day i found out that my bestfriend liked him and started flirting with him right in front of me. I was so angry. I asked her about it and she said no. I found out that she use to steel boyfriends before. So i asked him and he loves me, but i don't trust my bestfriend. What should i do?

2006-07-26 14:47:38 · 4 answers · asked by Katharyn B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-26 14:47:31 · 3 answers · asked by Bri 1 in Singles & Dating

i am like 5"2 80-85 pounds and 12 years of age am i short?

2006-07-26 14:47:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm tired of people trying to control my life & tell me what to do. Many ppl don't allow me 2 make my own decisions. I'm 22 & getting my college degree in 2 weeks. How is it that everything that makes me happy, my foster family say it's a bad decision?

2006-07-26 14:47:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My guy friend and I have been really good friends for two years. I love him, he loves me, and we both know it. I had started thinking that we may take it to the next level, but then he wrote this to me:

"I know how you feel for me. I am not sure if you know how I feel for you. I love you in every way possible. Never will I ever want to hurt you or make you angry. I will always be here to comfort you and protect you, even when I'm gone. We dont have a boyfriend/girlfriend bond or a husband/wife bond. A friend bond, and this bond will last for eternity. There are still many things you dont know about me yet. When the time is ripe, you'll know. I will always always love you unconditionally!"

Now the thing is, I want to take our relationship further, but he apparently doesnt. Keep in mind, every bf/gf relationship he has known has ended up badly. He doesnt trust anything other than friendship. What do I do to get him to trust our love?

2006-07-26 14:46:48 · 8 answers · asked by Riss 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some help with Questions to ask my crush (mc dreamy) when i talk to him either on the phone...texting him..or just messengering him..lol..I NEED HELP>>

2006-07-26 14:46:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do people cheat in general. I have never understood it...
And why do you think its ok?

2006-07-26 14:45:51 · 34 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone ever met an *amazing* guy and let him go? and now years later i still want to be with him, even tho i am with someone else and have a child together. It really sucks. I miss all the fun times we had together..all our convos on the telephone and msn...gosh i don't know what to do. I love the guy I'm with...but it's not *love* if anyone knows what I mean. I'm so confused...what should i do????

2006-07-26 14:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by bluesky 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-26 14:44:17 · 6 answers · asked by Squire 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-26 14:43:46 · 18 answers · asked by grant_lilmama 2 in Singles & Dating

give her attention...she gets really mad and tries to ignore the guy...and makes matters worse. Now I understand girls need attention, but at the same time most of us came into this world alone....we need some time alone to do the stuff we love...ALONE...wad up wit dat?

2006-07-26 14:43:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It's something that I have thought about over the years but have never seriously persued. I think the reason is because I've always known that I don't really want a relationship with my birth parents but there is always the curiosity to see where I came from. Is this a good enough reason to want to contact them? I have always felt that my adoptive family is my real family, so I don't really feel any void in my life by not knowig my biological parents. This is why I know that my only reason for contacting my biologicals would be out of curiosity. Is it likely that I would just cause alot of awkwardness for my adoptive family or my biological parents if I went through with this? If this is a good idea, can anyone suggest a reputable agency I should go through to try to find my birth parents?

2006-07-26 14:43:22 · 10 answers · asked by Justme 4 in Family

2006-07-26 14:42:53 · 26 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Singles & Dating