ok my best friend we been friends for 13 years been threw everything well her life got turn upside down. well she was in a serious car accident she was pregnant and lost the baby. here the bad thing she probably can't have kids i love her like she my sister we been threw all this stuff well she wont talk to me about anything... i am scared that if she don't talk to me about this it will make her depressed... what makes it even worst her ex boy friend is being a jerk to her... he came to the hospital and was like i came to make sure the baby was dead that isn't right at all.. what should i do to help her and get her to open up to me because i hate seeing her hurting like this???
2006-07-26 14:51:28 · 11 answers · asked by lil_carebear42069 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
PEOPLE MOURN IN DIFFERENT WAYS AND THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO FOR HER RIGHT NOW IS LET HER KNOW YOU ARE THERE FOR HER.DONT PUSH HER INTO TALKING ABOUT IT SHE WILL TALK ABOUT IT WHEN SHE IS READY.IT SOUNDS LIKE HER BF DIDNT WANT THE CHILD TO START WITH AND THE BEST THING SHE CAN DO IS BE RID OF HIM.YOU KNOW GOD HAS A PLAN HE CALLED HIS LITTLE ANGEL BACK FOR A REASON MAYBE TO SAVE THE CHILD FROM BEING ABUSED BY A FATHER THAT DIDNT WANT IT,EVERYTHING DOES HAPPEN FOR A REASON.MAYBE TO SHOW HER HE IS NOT THE ONE SHE IS SUPPOSE TO HAVE CHILDREN WITH..PRAY FOR HER AND HAVE FAITH ONE DAY JUST HOLD HER HAND AND IN SILENCE PRAY FOR A HEALING FOR HER TO HAVE MORE CHILDREN THEN BELIEVE IT WILL HAPPEN IT DOES WORK I HAVE EXPERIENCED BIG MIRACLE'S.I WILL PRAY FOR YOUR FRIEND.GOOD LUCK,SHE IS LUCKY TO HAVE A FRIEND LIKE YOU THAT CARES SO MUCH FOR HER.
2006-07-26 15:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by susan w 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
try talking to her, and tell her how expressing emotions can really help her, tell her if she talks to you and gets out her sadness and anger she'll feel better. say you will try very hard to help her and the friendship you both have. many of these events happen everyday and if you are motivated to help her, im sure u can turn her life back up.
2006-07-26 21:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince her she needs grief counseling. Make her realize this needs resolved and that it is affecting all her relationships and it will only get worse until she gets professional help. Be compassionate & empathetic...she needs an understanding friend now!
2006-07-26 21:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you need to tell her what her boyfriend said she needs to now the truth no matter how painful. He seems like someone who is not marriage material. And she needs to dump him.
2006-07-26 22:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
releave as much stress as possible
and help her out like buy groceries or whatever.
2006-07-26 21:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Hockey_Freak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM SORRY TO HEAR THAT ABOUT YOUR FRIEND. i WILL SUGGEST THAT YOU BE THERE FOR HER. LET HER KNOW SHE HAS A FRIEND THAT SHE CAN COUNT ON! AS FOR HER BOYFRIEND SHE NEEDS TO LEAVE HIM ALONE.
2006-07-26 21:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, dont give her more stress, lt her know when she is ready you will be there to listen
2006-07-26 21:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she's ready she should talk to you, but try to get her to go to a councelor.
2006-07-26 21:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by GirliGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U CAN ONLY BE THERE.U CAN'T MAKE HER TALK TO U.WHEN SHE IS READY SHE WILL TALK.
2006-07-26 22:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by john s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im rlly sorry but i dont no.
2006-07-26 21:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by Bosnian_chic_2012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋