Every time we have intercourse my husband has to put his fingers in my rear entry. It is rather annoying but it seems to be the only way he ever comes. What can I do to get it across to him that it is ok every now and again but not every time. I have told him before but he is convinced I am just saying it and I really love it.
2006-07-26 14:57:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i say tie his hands up until he stops... that'll solve that problem at least... either that or wen he touches you somewhere else ...exagerate a little... so he will think you like that even more....
2006-07-26 15:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like this is something he has not been doing since the beginning of your time together, but he's gotten into this "phase" for a while. Tell him before you guys get ready to have s*x that you want to have it without the fingers this time. If he does it while you're having it, reach down and push his hand away. You can try researching some different "techiniques" on the internet, or even Maxim magazine and say, "hey, instead of the fingers, I'd like to try this other thing...", or surprise him during s*x with this other technique and hopefully it will distract him from putting his fingers in your rear. Good luck...
2006-07-26 15:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bit weird! You want to take it lightly as you can with talking to him, but be serious at the same time. Maybe you while you tell him that you don't like that you can also tell him what he does do that turns you on and throw in some new things that you would like him to do. When you get married you plane on being with that person all your life, so open communication and being able to be heard is a very important part of life long relationship.
2006-07-26 15:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by shiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your butty? im a guy i like looking at it but thats it.
it seems like now a days every guy likes the buttay,i dont understand why.touch his rear lets see how he likes it.keep your rear on the bed dont give him a chance to get down there he will get the message.hope it works out for you,alot of guys r obsessed with it not just yours keep that in mind.
2006-07-26 15:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by chuxs d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see here your husband has issues if he needs to put his fingers in your *** to *** then that's a problem that he needs to figure out for himself
2006-07-26 16:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Snapookanins3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you two had anal before? It could be his way of hinting that he wants to do anal.
If you have done anal, then it's just some weird fetish of his. Next time he sticks his finger in your ******, you stick a cucumber in his and see if he still cums...
2006-07-26 15:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very strange, the next time he get on top of you, go ahead and slide your finger in his a s s and lets see if he like it
2006-07-26 15:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that is exit only or ask "how would you like it if I used a toy in your rear"?
If that doesn't work, find out what he doesn't like...
2006-07-26 15:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by curiousandsmiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check to see if your husband is trying to mimick any p@rn@graphic content he's been viewing.
2006-07-26 15:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by foxray43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him stick his fingers in his mouth after he does it
2006-07-26 15:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋