I'm tired of people trying to control my life & tell me what to do. Many ppl don't allow me 2 make my own decisions. I'm 22 & getting my college degree in 2 weeks. How is it that everything that makes me happy, my foster family say it's a bad decision?
2006-07-26 14:47:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If your 22 and getting your degree then you have some sense. There comes a time in life when you have to break away and do what's best for you. don't ever doubt that people that "love you" can't be jealous and not want to see you prosper. It is time for you to put your hater blockers on and live your own life!!
2006-07-26 14:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by tall_slimm 2 · 18⤊ 4⤋
No! you should never live by other peopleS opions. That S is capitolised because you shouldnt live by more than one person's oppions. For instance, if i listened to Frank and he said i should prupose to my girlfriend but Jeff said i shouldnt, i would be in a delima. But take away either Jeff or Frank, and im fine. that is the option of being a follower, folowing one person other than yourself's opinion. Your other choice is the leader option. thats where you only listen do yourself. My advice is to let ME make all your desicions for you. I wont charge you a dime and im always right. (as you can see i picked the leader option in my life) So just let me handle your life. Seriously, its so easy cruising through my life (i have a 7 digit paycheck each month and i went to the best college in the country) so i decided to take on someone elses. Its free and it helps everyone, it gives me a hobby and you a great life. I have 3 clients right now, but im almost positive i can take 5 clients without my own life going downhill.
2006-07-26 21:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Leon K. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should live by your rules and you rules only. Peoples opinions are ok, but you decide what is best for you. You will be a clooege grad in a few weeks and that is great, so take charge of your life. Best wishes.
2006-07-26 22:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never!!!! If you are a people pleaser, you will never be happy. Live the way you know is right and live to please God not people. The good people in your life will respect you and stand by you and the others that do not are just superficial and controlling and it is good to get rid of them.
2006-07-26 21:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure they have your best interest at heart,if they are paying for your college you may have to ..do as they say to a point...but always strive to be yourself as much as you can...try having an explanation for why you want what you want so they can see where you are coming from
2006-07-26 21:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by harleythom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a people pleaser if you do that everytime.
You would lose your own "identity"
Be brave to speak for yourself
Good Luck
Best,
*_* Suri
2006-07-26 21:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Curiosity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER LET WHAT EVERYBODY THINK OF YOU CONTROL WHAT YOU DO IN LIFE. DO WANT MAKES YOU HAPPY BECAUSE IF YOU LIVE ACCORDING TO HOW EVERY ONE WANTS YOU TO LIVE THEN YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY.
2006-07-26 21:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your opinions are no good, it would make sense to use other people's opinions.
2006-07-26 21:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by Christicide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋