Has anyone ever met an *amazing* guy and let him go? and now years later i still want to be with him, even tho i am with someone else and have a child together. It really sucks. I miss all the fun times we had together..all our convos on the telephone and msn...gosh i don't know what to do. I love the guy I'm with...but it's not *love* if anyone knows what I mean. I'm so confused...what should i do????
2006-07-26 14:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by bluesky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes I let mr wonderful get away aug.4th will be a year and I still won't let anyone get close to me I'm so afraid of getting hurt again, so be greatful you found someone else,and was able to move on. you should cherish the memories you had but don't forget why you broke up.try to make fun times with the one your with ,and never take him for granted. good luck
2006-07-26 15:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never let "the guy" get away and i'm sure you would do the same, you just don't realize it at this very moment. Something must have triggered those emotions that you find yourself missing this past love. I'm sure it's a phase you're going through. Listen, If i'm seeing somebody and i'm not happy in the relationship, it's time to move on and find someone who is worth it. The many men that i've dated in the past that I let go, i'm not regretting it. I am very content with the choices I made in my life. Don't dwell your thoughs on a past boyfriend, enjoy every moment with your current love. Everything happens for a reason.
2006-07-26 14:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have let the guy go, but I don't have any kids now or anything. I say be lucky to be with a good enough guy now. And start loving him for who he is. I mean there had to be something that attracted you to him in the first place to be having his child. I say keep the other guy in your memories. But realize he has probably moved on, maybe thinks about you occasionally but he probably has his own life now.
2006-07-26 14:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in love with the idea of the guy you "let get away." You are remembering all the good and none of the bad - which is why you broke up in the first place. Try remembering the good you've had with the guy you are with now. At the very least try it for your child.
2006-07-26 14:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up, honey.....you are living in Fantasy Land. It would never be the same and I guarantee you that this "amazing" guy is not the same guy. You need to grow up and focus on the life you have now......you sound like your own worst enemy. Stop acting just plain stupid!!! Got it????
2006-07-26 14:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your incorrect about adult males, once you imagine about it youthful adult males ought to have had sex with virgins making an equivalent volume of non virgin women. Im 16 and that i recognize countless adult males that are virgins, Theres better virgin adult males in intense college then the different position. And adult males wanting to have sex in intense college is a common element we are meant to verify on to have sex because our hormones make us, we are actually meant to have sex after puberty, in case you imagine of older situations like from the 1600s to 1800s countless human beings ought to get married from round 13 to 16. now lower back to the concern, being a virgin in until eventually marriage is an rather unlikely element now adays considering that human beings wait so long to get married. virgin or non virgin the alternative is yours.
2016-11-26 01:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but everything is done for a reason i still think about him and love him alot but i never would let myself go back to him
2006-07-26 14:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your child's future above your wants.
2006-07-26 14:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but maybe if he went so easily, then he wasn't really the one afterall.
2006-07-26 14:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, he let me go, and regret it later
2006-07-26 14:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋