How possessive are you?

Question

Do you mind if your other half (boyfriend/girlfriend, wife/husband, fiance/fiancee etc) has male/female friends? or hangs out with them?
To what extent is your possessiveness over your other half?
Is not liking your other half mixing with the opposite sex overboard?

Answer 1

I'm not possesive at all, in fact I encourage BaByGirL to have friends. She can confirm that. It's healthy to meet new people as a pair and especially as individuals for personal growth etc.. There may be times where I will not have the luxury of meeting those people such as her boss and his wife. But I agree that most if not all of the alleged opposing gender try to get away with sticking their hands in the cookie jar without getting caught. I'd like to know I'm aware and able to protect my investment. There have been many times where she was approached and hit on by people who know we are together; those people who really don't care if they destroy a happy home, but I also agree if you can't be trusted and you slip, than it was really never meant to be. I believe if your partner is faithful there's always that possibility that someone will try to change that. People really don't care who they hurt during their endless search for that empty and momentary act of pleasure. I've heard it and seen it, so it has been done. Sad because it's sometimes something that was deeply regreted and acknowledged as a finite relationship destroyer by the accused and guilty party leaving them in a sea of chaos and pain from the consequences. If I'm confident we have a commited relationship and an outsider tries to violate that privacy, be ready to make arrangements to accomadate the rest of your life without hands cause I'll make arrangements to remove them right off MACHETTERO STYLE!!! OOOPPS! No more cookies for you. :-( Be wise of what I refer to as 'realistic caution'! The 'that will never happen to me "syndrome".'

Answer 2

It's kind of hard for me to answer this. I don't like my better half hanging with females. I don't trust them. I don't really think a man should be hanging with females anyway, unless they are Single.
Males ok, it's a given, they need that. but most females don't know how to be just friends with a guy. At least I have yet to meet any.
Now if we are together like in a party or something it's different if I know the females. But otherwise No, i don't like it.
I don't think it's overboard, it's just being careful. You can't trust most females. Or at least I don't.
Yes, I admit it may sound possesive, But Better Safe Than Sorry!!!

Answer 3

I would trust my guy completely....... in any situation. If I couldn't trust him, I wouldn't be with him. He would have my complete trust unless he broke that trust by cheating. Then he would never have my trust again and I would not see him anymore. I don't like drama. Suppose I am at a party with my boyfriend......... and he wanders off to talk to some friends.......... and a very attractive woman approaches him........ I wouldn't run over to them with a jealous attitude. I would go about my business at the party. I would be confident in the fact that he will tell the woman that he is mine and that hes not interested in her. If he chooses to cheat, then hes not the guy for me anyway.