Family & Relationships - 19 July 2006

My son was visiting his Grandparents, and the older kids next door told him about sex.
He was told they told him to keep it a secret.
It all started when he saw a couple kissing and he said they were sexing.
We said no they were kissing.
He kept saying that kissing was sex and I said sex was something Mommys and Daddys do to have a baby (AAAGHHH).
I think I said too much or he sensed my ackwardness, because he talks about sex all the time now.
I was talking to my Husband about my sister going to the doctor to have a baby and my son blurted out why doesn't she have sex.
Help!!!!!
I just don't know how to fix this.

2006-07-19 10:11:59 · 8 answers · asked by accounting girl 2 in Family

Well he cheated on me a year ago. This is before we moved in with eachother. At the time we were together a year and 9 months. I had no idea! Well about 6 months ago I heard he was cheating but didn't believe it! Well the day before yesterday I found out that he did cheat. He promises on everything that it was only once, and he actually left her house w/out saying anything because he felt so bad! I do love him and it does suck that he cheated, and it hurts so much! The twist of it all is I'm PREGNANT and have no clue what I should do. Should I leave or stay and try and work it out?

2006-07-19 10:11:55 · 4 answers · asked by HeaRTbRoKeN 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well he cheated on me a year ago. This is before we moved in with eachother. At the time we were together a year and 9 months. I had no idea! Well about 6 months ago I heard he was cheating but didn't believe it! Well the day before yesterday I found out that he did cheat. He promises on everything that it was only once, and he actually left her house w/out saying anything because he felt so bad! I do love him and it does suck that he cheated, and it hurts so much! The twist of it all is I'm PREGNANT and have no clue what I should do. Should I leave or stay and try and work it out?

2006-07-19 10:11:45 · 18 answers · asked by HeaRTbRoKeN 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-19 10:11:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 10:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by Sherly C 1 in Family

I''m a recovering alcoholic and and have no social life anymore. I can't seem to make any friends at all in AA, and I don't think I will ever get over my ex-girlfriend unless I start dating someone else.

I've tried MATCH.COM and another site, but I always get the same answer, sometimes immediately. Either women:

1. Just don't want to date anyone that's a recovering addict/alcoholic.

2. Don't want to date anyone that doesn't drink.

I was just hoping someone could tell me why?

I'm 45, single, live alone and a pretty nice guy. Women in recovery generally don't date men in recovery. I don't think i'll ever find a wife.

2006-07-19 10:11:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a co-worker that has a 9 year old daughter that has very hairy legs. what is the right age for a little girl to start shiving her legs?

2006-07-19 10:10:12 · 38 answers · asked by walkwithme 1 in Family

Last night a web browser open to myspace.com was open on my laptop that my boyfriend was using. When I walked over he closed it. I was like, "why'd you close that" he said "oh, your brother must have been on myspace, so I closed it for him" I was like "ok". But today, I checked on his myspace page and he was on last night at that time, and left a message for a girl that i don't know. It was an innocent message, so why would he lie about it?

2006-07-19 10:09:59 · 33 answers · asked by kari 2 in Singles & Dating

just want to know

2006-07-19 10:09:02 · 12 answers · asked by Dominique S 1 in Singles & Dating

I've already slept with her several times, and it wasn't always protected...Did I skrew up. . .

2006-07-19 10:08:51 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 10:06:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 10:05:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 10:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 10:05:25 · 10 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, so I am getting to be CLOSE friends with a girl next door staying with her grandparents and we have really flirted and even kissed and things and been really close. We have talked about things like you wouldn't believe. Anyway, we were talking about the opposite sex the other day and she said that she has always been fascinated with a guy's ......... when it is .......... She actually said this with what looked like kind of a smile. The thing that is different is she is what you would call a "nice girl" but we have gotten really close and I get this vibe that she wants us to explore things and especially that she wants me to get .......... and touch or something. She is so nice that I think she expects me to initiate this and I am at full salute half the time we are together anyway LOL... I am confused about it though cuz she is so nice and I have always been told that girls are scared of a guys ........ (especially when it is at full salute).

2006-07-19 10:04:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ex and I broke up and our friends. We lived together and from June - July his two daughters lived with us(visiting). He just told me that their mother put a freeze on all his bank accounts and possibly suspended his license again through child support. My question is how can he prove the children were ith him for past two months. He and children will be moving back to home state tomorrow.

2006-07-19 10:04:20 · 1 answers · asked by Kenya 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a model. And I am naturally skinny not anorexic.....I am athletic....healthy.....dirty blonde hair, baby blue eyes...tall (of course) and well Im SUPER gorgeous but...I dunno.....Im a model I thought all guys like models....I have a great (shy) personality I like to have fun.....I DONT KNOW! HELP!

2006-07-19 10:03:34 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-I hurt the love of my life's pride.
-I said I am sorry but in a whatever kind of way.
-I ignored him for 2 years
Now I want him back...Do you think I have a chance?

2006-07-19 10:02:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just spoke to him and he said we will talk later. How do I tell him I want to keep it? He has been so mean to me. I know I have a career and a future. We were planning on a life together before we broke up. What should I do?

2006-07-19 10:02:36 · 26 answers · asked by badgirlplease 2 in Singles & Dating

leaves his nasty tobacco spit containers around the house and leaves them there, I have to throw them away and he yells at me for it. And he has his clutter everywhere. When I ask him to help me around the house he says since its not his mess he's not cleaning it.(we have a 2-5yr old) I've left him befor and let him come back because being a single mother was hard. Three months later he hit me in the head about 5-6 times as hard as he could. The 150.00 fee from the hospital he refuses to pay for. I do everything work full time drop them off at daycare and pick them up. I do all the shopping, cooking, cleaning, entertainment etc. for the kids. We live in one of the nasiest parts of town because he is extremely jelouse any time he feels threatened he makes my life a living hell. and he always wants to go visit his brothers in anouther city, hmmmm. I am depressed because he is such a bad father and husband. And he refuses to move out.

2006-07-19 10:02:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My new boyfriend is wanting to take care of me and my son do you think it would be ok to bring him to my casses. I think that i should.

2006-07-19 10:00:59 · 9 answers · asked by alw8205 1 in Singles & Dating

He has never worked a full time job, I always worked. He used an inheritance to pay monthly bills so now it is all gone and I have no savings because most of my earnings paid for monthly bills. We are facing our 60s with no savings and a heavily mortgaged house. When I ask him what he thinks we will live on, he says he has faith that things will work out financially.

He cheated on me with other women.

While not actually abusive, he has not treated me well.

I stayed with him til our child was grown. That was my choice.

Although I have a lot of anger and bitterness toward him, I also can not bring myself to hate him entirely.

I think he will be crushed by my leaving.

He says he loves me but I think he is just afraid of losing his meal ticket and being alone.

I'm hoping that my leaving will be a reality check that he really has to get a full-time salaried job.

So, what is the best way to break the news with the least amount of emotional angst for both of us?

2006-07-19 10:00:59 · 71 answers · asked by july 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if you have a boyfriend and the boy that your in love with comes and kiss you and you go for it . Is that considered cheating?

2006-07-19 10:00:48 · 24 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not looking for anyone over the internet, just interested in what you have to say. What would you rate yourself (1-10) and why? What do you feel are your best and worst qualities?

Also, it is ok to be self into yourself (what ever you call it) for this question. I want to know honestly what you would consider yourself on your outer beauty?

2006-07-19 10:00:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in an earlier post someone suggested that i find a condom that fits to me, i am 7.5 inches in length and 6.5 inches in circumference, any suggestions?

2006-07-19 10:00:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I''m a recovering alcoholic and and have no social life anymore. I can't seem to make any friends at all in AA, and I don't think I will ever get over my ex-girlfriend unless I start dating someone else.

I've tried MATCH.COM and another site, but I always get the same answer, sometimes immediately. Either women:

1. Just don't want to date anyone that's a recovering addict/alcoholic.

2. Don't want to date anyone that doesn't drink.

I was just hoping someone could tell me why?

I'm 45, single, live alone and a pretty nice guy. Women in recovery generally don't date men in recovery.

2006-07-19 10:00:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is real important to me so please so smart coments, i've always been there for my family even when i'm out of the country i drop everything if something is wrong in the family, i'm the blacksheep in the family cause i speak my mind, so i'm hated. my son just had a daughter 3 days ago and she needs open heart surgery, she's 6pds 4ounces, she's in ICU at yale, surgery on thursday and i just dont understand how family can turn their backs on their own and not even give an ounce of support to my son or the baby, I now realize that I have no family except for my mom and older brother who emails me. am i wrong for cutting them out of my life, i cry and worry about the baby and there is no one to cry to. that baby is a blessing from god and no one respects that, i almost feel hate for these people, they dont even care about my 12yr old girl, I pic up cans all night everynight so she can eat because i make just enough to pay the rent and bills, no one cares and i hurt so bad inside, help.

2006-07-19 09:59:03 · 2 answers · asked by maxiroots 1 in Family

Mitchell from around the Daytona Beach Florida area?

2006-07-19 09:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by Bride2Be 8/30/08 5 in Friends

2006-07-19 09:57:03 · 29 answers · asked by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 09:56:55 · 34 answers · asked by moving 1 in Other - Family & Relationships