Well he cheated on me a year ago. This is before we moved in with eachother. At the time we were together a year and 9 months. I had no idea! Well about 6 months ago I heard he was cheating but didn't believe it! Well the day before yesterday I found out that he did cheat. He promises on everything that it was only once, and he actually left her house w/out saying anything because he felt so bad! I do love him and it does suck that he cheated, and it hurts so much! The twist of it all is I'm PREGNANT and have no clue what I should do. Should I leave or stay and try and work it out?
2006-07-19 10:11:55 · 4 answers · asked by HeaRTbRoKeN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Will you be able to trust him? if your going to try to work it out then you have to forgive and try to trust again. If you don't think you will hold him under suspicion every time he leaves your eyesight then go for it after all there is now another person involved. However if your going to question everything he does in the future and bring the subject up anytime you feel fitting then I suggest you leave and try to keep the child in touch with its father, you do not want a stressful environment for your child.
Good luck in your decision.
2006-07-19 10:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by michele_zanella 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
both cheated - so there is no base of believe between you. (being inebriated btw isn't an excuse - no one forces you do drink alcohol, top?) i'd have a severe communicate with him, and ask him if there nevertheless is a destiny for you as a pair. also - you both pick to comply with actually forgive the different - and don`t carry it up ever back. then you definately both start up at sq. a million. meaning with a sparkling slate - and see in case you could make it artwork back.
2016-12-01 22:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is a tough one. You need to answer this yourself and with family that know you and him. I would say move out and make him prove that he will stay faithful. People can change, but not until they have to pay for what they've done. Do you know his family well? Do you know why he cheated? People that know you both can give you better advice. Good luck.
2006-07-19 10:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u need to talk about this and than u need to ask him if he loves you or not.
2006-07-19 10:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋