OK, so I am getting to be CLOSE friends with a girl next door staying with her grandparents and we have really flirted and even kissed and things and been really close. We have talked about things like you wouldn't believe. Anyway, we were talking about the opposite sex the other day and she said that she has always been fascinated with a guy's ......... when it is .......... She actually said this with what looked like kind of a smile. The thing that is different is she is what you would call a "nice girl" but we have gotten really close and I get this vibe that she wants us to explore things and especially that she wants me to get .......... and touch or something. She is so nice that I think she expects me to initiate this and I am at full salute half the time we are together anyway LOL... I am confused about it though cuz she is so nice and I have always been told that girls are scared of a guys ........ (especially when it is at full salute).
2006-07-19 10:04:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore what you've been told! A lot of us sweet girls only look sweet and we are not scared of a guys..... only want to get closer. If you've feeling for this girl than go where the road may lead but be protected!!! She's given you all the positive signals you can get.
2006-07-19 10:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would really sit down and discuss what you both want. Doing it the first time is really special for girls. You are taking on a big commitment if you are the one that she is with. I would just continue to be really good friends and be able to talk to each other. True friends of the opposite sex are hard to come by and should be cherished. Never complicate a good friendship with sex it is not worth it.
2006-07-19 10:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you two have been talking as much as you said, and about "things you wouldn't believe" and more deeper/real talk...then my advice would just be to ask her how she feels about fooling around with you. If you're uncomfortable asking her, then maybe you're not as close as you persume at the moment...just a thought! Plus, most girls respect a true honest, straight forward guy.
2006-07-19 10:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by t3l_em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Maybe you should just start by trying to kiss her and use her response to judge how much farther she wants to go. Or you could just come out and ask her if she wants to do certain things. Sometimes even "nice" girls like to be asked to do certain "things".
2006-07-19 10:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said those things, than she's obviously insterested in "exploring new things". Make a move if you'd like and see what her reaction is. Don't push her or yourself if you're not ready. Sorry, I know you said girls only... I don't care
2006-07-19 10:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if women were scared of that, the only children in the world would be products of rape.
2006-07-19 10:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by silver11016 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too young.
2006-07-19 10:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too young and should wait.
2006-07-19 10:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by shywoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not tuch her because ***** is better but if you like her than do her hard until you can not get no more this is your opion do what you would wont to do.
2006-07-19 10:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DO HER!
2006-07-19 10:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋