After a lot of counseling (1 yr+) and talking to friends, we read the "Five Love Languages". We read the book and took the tests. I feel words of affirmation (score:12) followed by quality time(8). Hers were quality time(7), receiving gifts(6) and physical touch(6). Afterwards, we spent a week together camping and discussed the book giving examples of what was missing, what we didn't like and most importantly, when we had spoken the others language loud and clear.
This was two months ago, and I don't feel like I've seen a change. I mentioned this after a month with more examples and I still have not seen it. I feel like I have been trying to make her feel loved. I have surprised her with concert tickets to someone she liked, I bought oils for long massages and I am learning to be the lover she needs. I own a business and agreed that I would leave at 7:30pm and save Saturdays for us. I haven't missed this once.
I haven't felt anything from her yet. How long does it take?
2006-07-18
04:09:25
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