2006-07-18 04:11:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
drop subtle hints just see where hes at if he responds to you. If you think he likes you then take him aside and just tell him. If you really want him to know then be honest and upfront. If you are not honest to yourself then that is when you look like a fool.
2006-07-18 04:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Love always involves risk. It is about making yourself vulnerable enough to express your feelings even if they are not received well & offered in return. This is why it takes such great inner strenght to truly love another... As opposed to the mutual gravitating together that happens too often. Without a stronger bond, such relationships drift back apart just as easily.
This ended up being deeper than I intended when I started writing, but I think the principle still applies: Someone has to be the first to stick their neck out; if you're interested enough, you'll decide that it's worth the risk. Embarassing moments are often fleeting and quickly forgotten. Lonliness lasts longer.
Good luck!
2006-07-18 04:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by M Huegerich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you and he have a common friend? If there's someone you both trust, you should tell that person to let him know you think he's interesting.
That should be all it takes. If a guy knows this, he'll probably want to talk to you a bit more. Then you can see what he's like.
Don't say you "like" him. That's different. You want to get to know what he's like, and then you might like him.
For now, have a mutual friend let him know you think he's interesting, and once he knows this, he'll talk to you about it.
2006-07-18 04:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u flirt 9 times out of ten u wont look like a fool..unless u dont kno how 2
2006-07-18 04:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by mobrisc14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go directly up to that boy and tell him you like him. Thats the best way. Be forward, be direct. you muight be suprised. If he's anything like me. I like it when girls do the approaching. They make the first move, Even if I dont like someone I would go out with that girl just cuz she made the move, Ive come to realize that even if I didnt like someone from the get go, sometimes after I go out with them, things change. I feel different. and then is when their beauty comes out.
2006-07-18 04:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Eric R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spend everyday since my 1st year in college with 28 women, here's what I learned, take the risk, you'll never find out what he thinks 'bout you until you do, don't think that you'll embarass yourself. Cause thing is, It's gonna be his loss if he doesn't feel anything for you, not yours. Hope I can help.
2006-07-18 04:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by Dizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 34 years old and still don't know the answer to that. I wish I did...let me know when you do find out.
The only advise I can give is always be yourself...don't change for anyone..
2006-07-18 04:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scared that only makes us mad we like to be able to know if a girl likes so just go up and start talking to the boy and bring up the fact that you like him and go with the flow!!
2006-07-18 04:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by killerhunter33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, it is not up to a girl to let a guy know she likes him it is up to the guy to let a girl know that he likes her.
2006-07-18 04:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him your phone number, tell him he gets one call, and to make it worth your while. If he calls. . .he figures you are worth the time. . if not. . he either lacks confidence or he is not interested. . .in either case. . .he was not meant for you.
2006-07-18 04:18:29 · answer #10 · answered by zambranoray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋