Im very choosey with females, but I was always taught that I should want the best for myself. So Im looking for the best.
I treat others the way I'd want to be treated, so I can accept rejection (b/c since IM choosey, I obviously do some rejecting)
With all that being said, could I have a problem or is this normal.
And does anyone else feel the way I do (just wanting the best)?
2006-07-18 04:03:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i totally agree with you! 100%! You should have high standards and you must keep them. if you going to date someone not actually what you wanted, you will not be satisfied with your choise. and the people you mingle with, you will be judged by who your friends/girlfriends/boyfriends are.... Keep it up. too picky than too eager!! GO BOY!
2006-07-18 04:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by blommekie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends on what you call picky/choosey with... i mean is it normal stuff like not wanting someone who smokes, or chews food with her mouth open, or laughs like a cow?
or is it stuff like sometimes does not match her clothing perfectly or does not always make a complete sentence, you know stuff that you can live with?
you know you only have one chance in life, so loosen up a little bit...
and...
when you do find the right girl, you will know it anyway...
good luck and relax and enjoy
oh and by the way... others should treat you the way you treat them, i totally agree ! ! ! it's called respect
2006-07-18 11:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being picky can be bad... i think its important to give people a chance because unless you do, you really will not know if they fit all your standards...
decide your top 5 or 6 things you are definitly looking for in a woman and base your decision on those things but the really picky stuff (like blonde hair, blue eyes) put aside because once you fall in love you will love all of them despite whether or not they matched up to what you originally felt you wanted
2006-07-18 11:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by tustudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its quite normal to be picky.Problem though is that you may end up missing out.There may be this person you thought you would never like or that she aint ur type.Rejecting her before knowing her can be to ur disadvantage.She may have turned out to be the most fun girl if only you gave her a chance.
Of course its bad,you wouldntwant a girl you fancy to turn you down based on your looks without her giving you a chance,would you?
2006-07-18 11:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by pinkpanther 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're just looking for the right one, then that's completely normal...but you say that you want THE best...you gota know if you're worth it or not! If you get the best girl and you can't live up to the expectations, then you're wasting your time! You can be picky to a certain point! You know?
2006-07-18 11:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with being picky, but let me tell you this: I took a poll of 20 happily married people, and asked them if they married their 'ideal' mate. Only ONE person said they married the kind of person they thought they were looking for. So - be picky, but keep an open mind - you may be delightfully surprised.
2006-07-18 11:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no problem with being picky. You're the one who has to date the person. You shoulddn't have to settle for anything more than what you decide is the best for you.
2006-07-18 11:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have a problem at all,in order to have a lasting relationship finding the right girl for yourself is the right way. girls are choosey also so your not alone.
2006-07-18 11:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you don't have a problem. everyone has their expectations for the mate. i think that it is perfectly normal to be picky. everyone is picky if you think about it, but it could be about shallow things and not what's important. i think that if you weren't picky then you may not have gotten as far as you have in life. being picky is just another way of taking care of yourself. continue to be picky and you will find the right one.
2006-07-18 11:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by shorty62199 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being picky is so not bad it just means that you know what you want and how you want it! its good that you treat others how you wanted to be treated b/cuz it means that you are sweet. its ok to be picky unless you are the type who can be a little bit too picky!
2006-07-18 11:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by mzpimpsquad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure you're not too picky cuz then you may be waiting forever (like i did). I eased up a little (she didn't have to like sports as much as i did, just a little) and I found the most perfect girl, so it will happen!
2006-07-18 11:08:31 · answer #11 · answered by USC Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋