i am actually in my first love right now and i love him but i nowe r gonna breakup some day.. will i ever get over it. will he??? did u? all the advice u can give would be loved thankyou.. also becasue ive herad ur first love is the only true love.. and u never get over it is it true??
2006-07-18 04:05:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, when you are older and meet your "last true love", you will remember your first fondly, but you do get over it. All part of growing up.
2006-07-18 04:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i did get over my first love but we still talk as friends, my q to you is how are u so sure it will end?
However, its not easy becasue if you have been together for over a year you sort of become really addapted to that person and to just let it go really becomes hard. And don't rush into any relationship when its over, give it time or you might hurt someone else when you truely aren't ready for that commitment again or you might still be in love with that first love.
2006-07-18 04:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Chanece G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know you will break up some day? some people are still with their first loves. your first love doesn't necessarily mean they are your true love. you get over your first love, you just never forget it. i still remember my first love and his phone number. of course he no longer is at that number but it just goes to show how much you can remember, all the little things, significant or not. when you are in any relationship you should enjoy it for as long as you can without being concerned about when it will be over unless you have facts that substantiate that outcome.
2006-07-18 04:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never got over my first love.....and what's ironic, is we live less than a mile from her, but I never feel the need to leave my wife to see her or anything. I wonder what might have been, but that's life, and we move on. But, I'll never get over it, and I'm assuring a place in heaven so we can be together then!!
2006-07-18 04:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by heymrdj1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not neccessary, My first love was not my true love, the man im with now is my one true love. it all depends who it is.., it may be your one true love.. but then you two wouldnt end just like that.. The real meaning of your own true love, is someone who never cheated on you, someone who treats you right. someone who doesnt abuse you emotionally or physically. someone who will go through anything with you.. someone you can trust and can strust you.. cheaters will always be cheaters. they will just be carefull not to get caught the next time. I got over my first love, and we lasted 3 yrs. because i found someone that was better than he is., and was the axact opisite of him but the meaning of love. and isnt hurting me in any way. and we are now married. TO me my first love was either puppy love or lust. because im madily inlove with my husband. hes my hunny.
He may be already over you if he left you.
if you left him theres a chance he stopped caring or is hurting.
it all really depends on their feelings.
just because you dont get over someone.. Doesnt mean they were true. or you would still be with that person. and no one would have even got hurt. unless its a difficult situation. like involvment of parents where you 2 were ripped apart. then its all the other way. where you still love eachother but you 2 have to let go. other wise.. you 2 werent meant to be.
It will take some time to get over your first love.. The amount of time you 2 lasted. wont matter because your feelings for eachother and memories would be at large. but you will heal in time when someone else takes him off your mind.. and puts your heart in a feild full of clouds.. and Your mind changes so much.
any guy you ever been with dont even matter because that one guy will be there... fading them all out. even your first love. now that is what i call Real Love. .....to forget the first guy that effected and broken your heart. Theres always someone out there that will treat you better and take your mind of him. and enjoy as two hearts become one.
2006-07-18 04:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_poetic_fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get over it. However, if and when you do break-up, it'll be one of the most painful experiences of your life, of which, believe me, you DO get over. That's were you learn that a broken heart does heal.
So live it up, suck all the juice out of it right now while it's good, and if you relationship is meant to sink or swim you'll find out in due time, so stop thinking about the break-up (unless you want to break up...)
2006-07-18 04:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can answer this question. youre gonna get a lot of answers from people who brag that they still are and a lot of answers from people who obviously havent ever felt the intense feelings of love.
im with my first love right now sort of also. it went to hell a long time ago but we are still dragging each other through. .....and im only 24 years old and it seems like life is so short. when really im so young. she is 30 though so .........I DONT KNOW.
i think ill only ever be able to feel that kind of deep love with her. ...i mean maybe something with someone else COULD work but i think i could only ever be fulfilled with her.
2006-07-18 04:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by sean_mchugh6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you will break up someday if you truly love each other? True love doesn't come along everyday (sometimes only once!) so if it is true love, I'd suggest staying together... or break up and get back together someday! Good luck.
2006-07-18 04:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by lindajean57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the previous love is the non-public and no one is conscious the sentiments your going through except they too experienced astounding youthful love. best for you. existence is painful for most little ones till you a thanks to keep your self based and calm. in case your boyfriend relaxes you and also you delight in one yet another , it is awesome. your fortunate your mum and dad approve of his friendship. for sure it truly is love. love is an emotion all of us journey, even my canines loves me, so love isn't a secret...... purely delight in. in case you do sex, make positive you do not carry toddler into this international, make positive you and your boyfriend use precautions ! it is utmost significant !
2016-12-01 20:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by fahlman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ABSOLUTELY will get over your first love. You will remember him but, as you mature, there will be other loves and lovers. One of them will be the right one : )
2006-07-18 04:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋