Family & Relationships - 18 July 2006

So here the story goes:

Sara (ME) emailed F (a good male friend...just a friend)

"I dont know why ive been still talking to u even when uve been so rude to me, u know what?...u can never have close n good friends b/c u dont know how to have patience and how to compromise with them...i just wanted to talk to u and make things better....i liked u n wanted to remain ur friend even though my b/f hates u, but i like u....and i wz sort of attracted to u...dats it....but u....u only know how to say "u s**k and get lost"...u can never have good frnds....BYE"

A(MY B/F) read the above mail I sent to F(friend). A(b/f) and F (male friend) hate each other like hell...always fighting...the serious fighting. my b/f always stopped me to talk with him, but i still used to talk with him because he was my very good friend...and as A(b/f) used to stop me...i started talking to F(friend) secretly.

A(b/f) was alot hurt when he read the above mail on my email adress as he's got all my passwords, just like ive got all of his. After reading the mail my b/f messaged me which said:

"My plans aren't a joke, my life isn't a joke...when u say u're my girl then how can u talk about likeness and attraction with someone else? What r u doing? Is this some kind of drama going on? r u playing with me? How shall i trust u now...u said u hate F(friend) and have stopped talking to him...u lied to me???"

since that message im trying to call A(b/f), but he's not recieving it. I love A(b/f) alot and watever i said to F(friend) abt likeness and attraction was only to make F(friend) regret and to make him feel that how it feels, loosing a friend dats it!...its just a friendly likeness and nothing else...the only person which is in my heart and on my mind is A(b/f)...i dun want him to leave me...just 4 dis............i emailed him as he wasnt recieving my call...i cleared everything in my mail....he read my mail but he didnt reply....he didnt even call me...

now tell me what should i do.....how shall i make him understand that he's the only one for me and noone else.....im disturbed and confuse and i want u to help me....plzzzz.....

PS: if u want any additional details then tell me i'll add them so that u can read them and edit ur answers....i'll be very thankful to all the guys who answer me.....i need ur help guyz

and yea....if there r some typing or language or any grammar mistakes, then im sorry, im crying soooo much....i just randomely typed everything

THANKS

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Im not responsible.Still I feel guilty.

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Thanks.

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