2day my boyfrnd of over 6 yrs came and told me tht he has stopped luving me.He didnt say anything else just tht he doesnt luv me.I dont know wat 2 do.I luv him a lot & I cant live without him.
do u think he is just joking or i dont know.plz help me.sud i ask him 2 stay or sud i let him go.plz plz help me.
2006-07-18 04:20:26 · 19 answers · asked by madonna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I m17.i really really cant live without him.he doesnt evn give any reason he just sed he doesnt luv me anymore.plz plz plz help.
2006-07-18 04:31:34 · update #1
6 years and he tells you he doesn't love you anymore...if I were you, I'd be furious, not sad. You can try demanding an answer from him but you either might not get one or you might not hear what you want to hear, both equally unsatisfying results there. You CAN live without him...I know it's hard and you feel like someone pulled the rug out from under you, but use the anger you feel to pick up and move on with. Now that you know this, WHY would you want to stay with this man? He's made it clear how he feels and trust me, you don't want to stick around with a man who's not in love with you...you'll never get what you want. If you move on and make yourself happy by doing things for yourself that you love, you will meet someone else that's happy and ready for love. Good luck.
2006-07-18 04:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
well, if a guy suddenly tell u that he doesn't love u anymore, this mean that :
1)he have found someone outside that he felt happy to be together with.
2)he may be stress up with his work and does not have any free time for his own. he need some time of his own.
i think u should give him sometime to think about it and ask him what the reason for telling u this. Dun try to end this relation as it already been 6 yrs that u two have been together.
2006-07-18 11:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by gpsk77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the greatest lessons in life is that not everybody you love will love you back. It's just part of life. Yes, you CAN live without him. You are WOMAN! This only means that he isn't "the one", but I can promise you The Real One IS out there somewhere just waiting to be introduced to you. Suck it up, walk tall and proud, and move off in another direction. There's a "lot of gold in them there hills", and you're sure to find your share of it.
2006-07-18 11:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his butt! And by the way, you feel like you can't live without him but what do you think you were doing prior to getting together with him? Obviously something is going on in his life that makes him feel that he doesn't love you so nothing you do is going to change that. You shouldn't have to work so hard to make someone love you.
2006-07-18 11:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by paddocklke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging from three weeks ago, I would bet he's ticked off and maybe even trying to hurt you. If he didn't care at all, why would he have become mad over those emails? I don't know what his game is, but its a bad one. I'm sorry you're hurting, but you might have to let this one go. Good luck.
2006-07-18 11:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by dark_storm73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's joking unless you left some info out, but maybe he's just mad. Talk to him, ask him why and when he stopped, and tell him how you feel. If he really wants to split, there are a lot of other guys out there, and you'll get over him, really.
2006-07-18 11:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a man has decided to move on, you better believe it! i know it hurts not being with him but you need to let him go! when you let him go, no contact whatsoever. no phone, visits, sex, nothing. you will eventually start seeing that you can live without him.
why would you want to be with someone that doesnt want you? if you decide to stick around knowing that he really doesnt want to be with you, you are desperate for one, for two he will know he can do any and everything to you because he knows you are desperate for him and will still be there...
have some self respect and love yourself, he is not worth it
2006-07-18 11:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave. If he doesn't love you suddenly, it's good you found out before something major happened...like marriage. Tell him if he don't love you he needs to step out of your life and make way so that other guys have the opportunity to make you happy again.
2006-07-18 11:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by Alaskan_Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for some (weeks) time to clarify the situation and evaluating your own feelings.Your response is natural.
2006-07-18 11:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Dr MK Khaishagi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard letting go but its not worth it staying with someone who doesnt love you he will only bring pain in your life have some pride and walk away
2006-07-18 11:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋