I'm 18 and I'm LDS. I want to serve a 2-year mission. I have 11 months left until I can leave. I want to try to date/marry my best friend, we'll call her 'Carol,' when I come home. Carol has had this platonicfriend, 'Frank', who leaves for his mission next week, (which means he'll be back before I am) for three years. Carol and I have been dating since September of last year. Carol and I have done things that the LDS church deems inappropriate, but we've tried to work it out.Carol has promised Frank she won't be married before he comes home from his mission, and I asked her why I don't get special privileges like that and she said it's because we've messed up. Carol saved me from committing su.icide (she doesn't know that) and is the best friend I've ever had. We did inappropriate things again today and I'm afraid she's going to abandon me. I am trying to salvage this relationship, but I can't figure out how to stop messing up like we do. I've tried everything! Am I going to lose her?
2006-07-18
14:56:32
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Nick Fury
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Marriage & Divorce