The first time it went to the physical the second was just a discussion on how he was gonna leave me & our son and go to her after I put him through college. So would you stay or would you go?
2006-07-18 14:57:17 · 23 answers · asked by Amber T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He doesnt think he did anything wrong with the second time he even sent her a pic of our son that I took. My mom told me to work it out but I just feel like .....my soul has been damaged beyond repair.
2006-07-18 15:05:32 · update #1
fooled me once shame on u, fooled me twice shame on me. Why would u want to be with someone who likes someone else.
2006-07-18 14:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know its hard to forgive and forget and things will never be the same no matter what...The damage has been done and its hard not to think about that every-time you look at him...
So the question is do you want to go through the rest of your life having to face that and think about that everyday..
Do whats best for you and your son be happy life is to short to live any other way...Best of luck be happy and smile..
2006-07-18 15:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to evaluate the relationship and decide is it worth fighting for. Do you still want to be with him or can you do better by yourself. He cheated on you once and if he doesn't sincerely want to change then definitely no you shouldn't stay with him. But if he came and told that he cheated and feels very bad and want things to work then you should consider. I know he destroyed your trust and belief in him but maybe he is worth fighting for after all he didn't have to tell you about it. In this case it seems he want to be with someone else so let him go and find someone better.
2006-07-18 15:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never stay with a cheater.. You will just get hurt again in the end and you don't deserve that no one does.. The first time my wife cheated i let it go.. But the second time i packed her bags and sent her up the road and yes i keep the kids!!!! So don't put up with it send him on his way and get on with your life .... Life is to short to waist on someone like that...
2006-07-18 15:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by nclonewolf1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have left the first time. It hurts so much to find out you can not trust this person you loved so much. The betrayal, the loss, the pain, all too much to deal with and still have to be reminded every day (just because you are living together) of those bad feelings. I just could not endure it.
2006-07-18 15:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by umbralatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him and you are giving him permission to do it again, breaking up a relationship for selfish reasons and taking those risks is something he needs to pay his penance for. I would leave as once a trust is broken it is a very hard thing to get back and trust is VERY important to a relationship lasting.
2006-07-18 15:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go! Quickly! If he doesn't keep his promise to her he will leave you for someone else. He's already implied that he's only with you so you can put him through college. You go to college and tell him to go to hell! Don't forget the child support.
2006-07-18 15:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have forgiven my husband three times, but i do the same as well, it works both ways, communication is the best, so you should talk to him about it, if u dont want to be with him tell him.
2006-07-18 15:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did in my first relationship and haven't had to in my second but I would no need to throw away something over a dumb mistake
2006-07-18 16:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by sparky657 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never forgive cheating. Not once. Not ever. You have to make your own decisions about how you will handle the situation though.
2006-07-18 15:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋