Family & Relationships - 17 July 2006

Right now, my boyfriend is going through things. His ex-wife is suing him for full custody of their kid, he is going through foreclosure, we are broke, his family acts like they dont give a crrap, last year he lost his job and was/still is going through some depression. he has this new job but its been slow goings and hes learning how to sell the new product for this company. He moved to my area 5 years ago. He doesnt know many people here except for a few neighbors, and some old co workers, which live like 30 miles away. Hes becoming good friends with his new co worker however, he lives about 40 mi. away and never really sees him but talks on the phone alot. Really the only support hes gotten is from me, and a little from my family. Do you think he really needs me at this time in his life?
weve been together since late 2004. And I love him very much. He has been very good to me.

2006-07-17 21:28:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will make it so your ties are permanantly severed and you won't be able to speak to him, do you understand? I will make it so your number is blocked from ever contacting him again if you do not stop. Focus on your own life. You obviously have problems and struggles and situations that you know what, Tyler just does not want to be a part of and he doesn't need to be, he has his own life and it does NOT include you... No matter what kind of relationship you may have had in the past, that's in the ******* past so leave it there and quit bothering him.

He has not told any of this to me and I havent said anything to her really accept I was sorry for whatever I did. She doesnt think a married girl should have guys for best friends and my husband was also friends with him and he thinks shes just jeleous and making up things telling him so he doesnt talk to me. Either way it makes me very sad.

2006-07-17 21:25:06 · 9 answers · asked by Amy W 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-17 21:25:03 · 9 answers · asked by Sarwar 1 in Friends

if you liked a guy and he has gone away for two weeks and u only have his email and he has no internet so u cant get in contact with him ?but he has your number but will not ring because u have a abusie boyfriend and he want you to let him know when you have lefted him .do u think this guy wants to be with me when ive lefted this person ,p.s not lefted abusive boyfriend yet because i have to wait till he has gon a million miles away because he is always at home

2006-07-17 21:24:13 · 6 answers · asked by yates1239 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister and I have not always been close but I notice since she has moved far off we have talked more open. I haven't ever told a family member I was gay. My sister has been married 5 years and is now getting a divorce. She is moving back home for a while. So I have been thinking about telling her I am gay. because Since she has been gone I have open up my life more to people around me. I feel I might aswell bit the bullet and tell her. But I am affraid she might tell my parents if she gets mad at me for something. But on the other hand she has always question my sexual preferance anyway. I feel she might spy on me anyway and so I might need to tell her. Then again she might help me find someone right for me! Has anyone been through this delima?

2006-07-17 21:23:24 · 16 answers · asked by grouptdo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im confused in the sence that i dont know how to find a middle ground when i want a woman and i cant really express it because i over do it and probably get too sissy like but if i act too cool and not sissy like then i seem like i dont care about her or that im boring and not intrested in her...........my question is confusing im sorry but how can i find the middle ground between not caring and too sappy...its hard.....any suggestions from men who are succesful with women or women who know what im talking about......i guess i might post my question over if i dont get the answers i like

2006-07-17 21:21:57 · 28 answers · asked by anonymous 27 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 21:20:51 · 9 answers · asked by KITTY 1 in Singles & Dating

It is 2:10 and I am doing just that. My wife, the love of my life since 18 years of age has left me for another. She goes on with her happy life feeling no pain yet I sit here feeling miserable. "We grew apart". Isn't that always the answer these days. Anyone else in my shoes feel free to IM me.

2006-07-17 21:19:42 · 11 answers · asked by Scott B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-17 21:17:57 · 8 answers · asked by npguy73 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 21:14:51 · 17 answers · asked by money money 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-17 21:14:43 · 9 answers · asked by lazlo 1 in Singles & Dating

His daughter is dreadful, how do I deal with it?
She lies continually (told us her son needed operation and on another occasion said her partner was being abusive to her) , is manipulative and is always asking for money.
I'm alway's nice to her but can see the effect it has on him - do I say something? Keep quiet and just be there for him?
Her mum has told her I'm the reason for the marriage ending but this is totally untrue - I tried to talk to her about this but she just said it didn't matter. I was actually his first girlfriend, we split and he married her mum, I never saw him until the marriage ended - her mum does know this!

2006-07-17 21:14:24 · 16 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Family

2006-07-17 21:12:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Its getting really annoying, if i tell her i am going to make an outfit, she will want to make the same style, even have the same seamstress make it for her. I am so bored, its affecting the way i treat her i know and i feel bad, but i dont know how to confront the issue. She is such a wonderful friend. But this is driving me crazy.

2006-07-17 21:07:36 · 8 answers · asked by lady p 2 in Friends

2006-07-17 21:06:28 · 12 answers · asked by KITTY 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 21:05:25 · 11 answers · asked by siahkolan 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanna know what to talk about and how to talk to girls to have an interesting date so im not too boring.And please dont answer the question if your gonna give me the be yourself or dont play games with a woman kind of advice....i need help here...like what do women like to talk about and most detailed answers will be appreciated.

2006-07-17 21:01:02 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 27 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf for 6 years and he has made it clear to me that he does not want to get married...he has even mentioned that I should move in with him...but he doesn't want to get married...he says he doesn't believe in marriage...should I throw away my dreams of marriage and move in with him in the future or should I look for someone else?

2006-07-17 20:59:40 · 24 answers · asked by sexyprincess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-17 20:58:41 · 17 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been seperated from my ex. for 2yrs. he has never really paid support but he always took our 3yr. old. girl for days at a time. we never had issues. he recently went to jail to do 5yrs. and my child is taking it real hard. i have made an appointment for her to see a social worker. she bites. spits. pee's on her sitter's sofa. kicks the kids,screems.she has never been like this. and when she do these things she stops and cries and says her daddy has left her. does she really understand? she has been kicked out her daycare and i had to stop working. if i leave her with anyone (expt. my mom) she really gets out of control. i have tried time out, taking her toys even tapped her hand once. I am lost. her dad called her once since he left (03/2006) he has a kid on the way and i thought i got along with the girl until he went to jail she has told him that i am harrasing her. not true. should i write him? ask him what's up? i need to know what do i tell her she is 3yrs she cry at nites

2006-07-17 20:58:40 · 8 answers · asked by sexylousleo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am seeing a guy for the past few months. we live slightly far and are quite occupied with work usually. Hence , we see each other only during weekends and that also alternate.
The catch is that this guy is wierd, he will not call u the entire week and will not even take ur calls. Incase, I donot call him he will complain saying that i didn;t call.
When we meet over weekends we have a nice time and he makes me feel important and loved.
I donot know how to see this relationship, I like this guy but don't know where is this relationship heading.

2006-07-17 20:58:06 · 5 answers · asked by sups 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I cant get her out of my head! I have accepted the fact that we have broken up. But it still hurts!

2006-07-17 20:56:41 · 30 answers · asked by muffin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-17 20:56:39 · 22 answers · asked by hamidreza_abdimomtaz 1 in Family