I cant get her out of my head! I have accepted the fact that we have broken up. But it still hurts!
2006-07-17 20:56:41 · 30 answers · asked by muffin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Losing your girlfriend is not the end of the world. Someday you will have to stand a coffin and say goodbye to your parents. When you need someone to lean on, a shoulder to cry on and the world seems cold they will be gone. Ask your parents for advice now while you can. Lean on them they love you. I'm sure they have been through plenty of lost relationships when they were yourger too. Grow up to be a wise man by listening to them.
2006-07-18 01:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sad Mom 3 · 12⤊ 2⤋
Dear Heartbroken,
Okay, this has happened to everyone and anyone at least once in their lives. First, you need to think of all the reasons why you broke up or thought you would break up because of. Then, write down on paper the things that bothered you about her. Then, you write down what things you admire in your dream girl. Then, when you compare them, you will see that you can do a lot better. Another way to get over it is to accept it and then relive all the bad times in your relationship. Then you will be so mad at the things she said or did and you will get over her soon. Also, go out and do the things you enjoyed and could do before you were with her. You will then see that you can have a good time without her.
2006-07-17 21:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by stupid_people_rule13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only 'get over her' if you want to. I'm afraid that it's going to take some effort on your part to try to leave her behind. You can start by not calling her 'my girlfriend' call her 'my ex' instead.
Try to think about the reasons for your split. It must be for the best and surely it's better that it happened now rather than later when you were married or had children.
Try not to see her or speak to her if you can help it for at least four months. If you meet by accident be civil but make your excuses and leave as soon as possible. The seperation will make you view the situation more rationally.
2006-07-17 21:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you will be able to move on. If she really meant something to you and had ways about her that brought joy into your life you will seek those qualities out in other women. Write down your memories of her and let there be a place in your heart for the time you were together. If it didn't hurt then it wasn't that special. Spend some time on yourself, you don't need a rebound date the next day.
2006-07-17 21:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by thymeandspice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Mourn your loss for a while, don't rebound into another relationship. Take the time to reflect on any mistakes (eg attitudes, expectations, communication etc) so that you learn from them and therefore will have a better chance to make the next relationship work.
2. When you're done mourning and learning, get to a strip club and get your mojo back.
2006-07-18 01:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by adygee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, yes u will eventually get over her just give time time i know it hurts you because i have went throught it with my ex all u could do is cry ,scream kick a tree to make ur pain less try to keep ur self busy that helps little and next thing u know it not going to hurt anymore. good luck and if u need some one to talk u could always write me.
2006-07-17 21:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by Carly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its horrible, i know it feels like the end of the world for you ,and the worst is when you do eventually fall asleep at night you wake up ,and that horrible feeling is still there but trust me time is a great healer of the heart, and things do feel better but again all in time, and let it be a good learning lesson for you love hurts but makes you a little stronger for next time. hope this helps good look
2006-07-17 23:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by kel_m_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there breaking up is one of the hardest things that we do.it doesn't matter how long you have been together,a week a month or a year.tit hurts and you don't want to do anything,or go out with your mates,but time is a good healer.take it at a day at a time.go out with your mates and before you know it you will meet someone else
2006-07-17 21:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by janice s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time definatly heals, hang in there it will get better. Find something that you enjoy doing, or used to enjoy doing and force yourself to do it. You often find that its the things that you least like doing at these times that are the most beneficial to you. Make that extra effort and go for it my friend. good luck, hope this is of help xxx
2006-07-17 21:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend time is the only cure time and the more you loved her the longer it will be before you can truely get over her, getting back in the dating field or in a new relationship helps speed up the process a bit but it is still a matter of time
2006-07-17 21:00:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋