It is 2:10 and I am doing just that. My wife, the love of my life since 18 years of age has left me for another. She goes on with her happy life feeling no pain yet I sit here feeling miserable. "We grew apart". Isn't that always the answer these days. Anyone else in my shoes feel free to IM me.
2006-07-17 21:19:42 · 11 answers · asked by Scott B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel your pain. Funny how the ones that are left behind suffer the most. I think I just blew it tonight with someone who could have been more than "just a friend" and am mourning that loss. The wee hours of the morning are the worst.
2006-07-17 21:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband left 12 years ago...it took three years for me to get back on my feet emotionally, financially, spiritually. I used anger as my motivation to keep going in those days. Now it all seems like another lifetime ago...as if all that happened to someone else. I learned more about myself going through all that pain than I had during my 18 years of marriage! You will survive, you will heal, you will enjoy life again. My faith was a great source of strength. Good luck to you.
2006-07-18 02:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey am also going through the same, for me it only happened 2 days ago and we are now fighting over our three year old girl.
what I can say is that Love really hurts especially if your partner leaves you for someone else. My brother the only healer of your heart break is TIME.
We will both and many others in a similar situation get over it some day. If we can forget about a loved one who dies, what about a lost love. it is the same process.
Be strong.
2006-07-17 22:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by mwilaeuzaih 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not fret so much. 18 is very young to get married. I know at age 18 everyone thinks they know what they want, but nearly no one I know is the same as they were at that age. Don't feel miserable, life is too short. Go out and live it. Find your independent identity, you know without her.
2006-07-17 21:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by ChaCha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scott, move on man, forget about her she is gone, she was yesterdays news, i know that sounds harsh but it is the only way to get on with your life, there are plenty of women out their, its not the end of the world, in fact if could be the start of a new and better life for you, learn from your past marriage and your next relationship will be better, don't sit around waiting for yourself to feel better, get out their and start to make yourself feel better it will be hard at first but you can do this, i did it.
2006-07-17 21:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by pebblesandkara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way your a lucky bastard you can fall in love again . There are women out there just itchen for a guy like you ! Im a man and I know!
2006-07-18 02:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl named Cara for me but not like your situation. Get out the house, Get in some shape and get it on man!
2006-07-17 21:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dun have the same but really feel sorry for u hope u will get over it and find a new one!
2006-07-17 21:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. TRUE LOVE SOMETIMES ENDS WTH REAL PAIN.....tHERE IS NOTH8ING TO MAKE IT BETTER ONLY
TIME...i WOULD STILL. TAKE HER BACK....
2006-07-17 21:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by demarest2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it every day. And i'm with soimeone new =\
2006-07-17 21:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋