Its getting really annoying, if i tell her i am going to make an outfit, she will want to make the same style, even have the same seamstress make it for her. I am so bored, its affecting the way i treat her i know and i feel bad, but i dont know how to confront the issue. She is such a wonderful friend. But this is driving me crazy.
2006-07-17 21:07:36 · 8 answers · asked by lady p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is weird...I would tell her one thing and do another, maybe she'll get the message and she wont be wearing the same thing as you
2006-07-17 21:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's complimenting you. She wants to be just like you. Be glad you have such an impact on her. Make sure you set a good example and steer her in the right direction.
2006-07-18 02:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Big mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a true friend you should just take this as a complement. She obviously admires you, and wants to be like you. That should make you feel good. So try not to sweat it.
You are obviously someone worth imitating.
2006-07-17 21:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I relies upon. no count if it somewhat is like taking the mic copying then you definately could only check along with her and tell her that whats she's doing is rather stressful. If she easily is copying you its in all probability as a results of fact she admires you and so which you do no longer desire to be too mean or you ought to truly injury her thoughts. i think of you're able to easily wait a on a similar time as and desire it is going away in time if no longer then i advise chatting along with her yet like right and attempt to no longer get all your anger out from it in like one extensive component only be great or she ought to wind up somewhat hating you or perhaps in spite of the indisputable fact that whilst shes copying you you're able to think of properly i do no longer somewhat care if she hates me have faith me you will. desire i ought to help
2016-12-10 09:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a workmate had this problem with a 3rd workmate.
can you sit her down and talk to her about it? sounds like it won't go away if you ignore it so if you dont talk to her it will end up ruining your friendship. if shes a wonderfull friend that would be a shame.
try to talk to her about being an individual having her own style and like and dislikes....
2006-07-17 21:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this person obviously looks up to you to show her the best way to do everything..if you realize this then help her. talk to her about the things she likes and try to help her find the best hairdo and stlye of dress for herself.. don't just leave her hanging and get mad. she probably is very introverted and unsure of herself. as her freind help her build her confidence. she is really asking you for help.
2006-07-17 21:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. You should feel complemented not annoyed.
2006-07-17 21:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Spartan Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her be. I know its annoying, but it is a compliment. You are just that good. You have to live with it:)
2006-07-17 21:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by skigod377 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋