Family & Relationships - 15 July 2006

I can only see one logical reason you would separate and that is if you intend to get back together one day but need your space. It is not like you are divorced where you can legally marry again; however, you are not actually married in the “marriage sense” either. I have came across women that have been separated for years, however, I am scratching my head thinking why they did not get a divorce. If I am not mistaken you have to get a divorce to get married again anyway. I guess it just does justice for my psyche to know that a person is single, divorced or widowed, however, separation makes me think they may work things out “potentially.”

Is separation a safe haven for married people to see other people without legal problems? What are all the logics of behind separation?

2006-07-15 18:53:06 · 5 answers · asked by worsetofirst 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-15 18:52:42 · 16 answers · asked by tbunny 1 in Weddings

I was married twice 7 years each and both of them left me for a friend>3 serious girlfriends b4 them and they all cheated wth one of my friends.A woman will tell you all her life she dreamed of love and how your the one forever.But once life gets alittle tuff they run to the nearest penis around not even thinking about how there crushing the heart of the man she said she once loved.But will actualy throw it in your face and not even give it a second thought.Woman just lie better then men.thats al

2006-07-15 18:51:45 · 29 answers · asked by tssfix 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to get a guy i have been myself but i do not no how to flirt please help me.

2006-07-15 18:50:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's father might have Cancer, we're all just waiting to find out the results.

I love my boyfriend and have been with him for almost two years. However, we have been fighting often *way before we found out about his dad* and he gets very disrespectful. He questions my loyalty to him and thinks I should never go out with my friends. I was planning on breaking up with him before we found out about his dad, but now I couldn't imagine breaking up with him during this difficult time. I'm wondering how long after the results should I break it off with him, I really don't want to seem insensitive.

2006-07-15 18:47:10 · 4 answers · asked by cutiewithabooooty 5 in Singles & Dating

THERE IS THIS BOY WELL JUST A FRIEND THAT I KNOW ALMOST EVERYTIME THAT I LOOK UP HE IS LOOKING INTO MY EYES DOING A LITTLE SMILE KIND OF FLIRTING REMEMBER HE IS MY FRINED BUT HE WAS LOOKING THROUGH MY PHONE AND SAYS THAT IS THE GURL HE LIKES BUT I CAN FEEL THAT HE LIKES ME A LITTLE BY FLIRTING DO U THINK HE LIKES ME?

2006-07-15 18:44:30 · 16 answers · asked by MS. SEXY!!!!!!!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 18:43:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

everywhere in public i have no family at all. no job. i live with my uncle and he never gives me money i use toilet paper to hold the blood but it doesnt work any advice and im on my uncles computer! this is nasty screenname! creep

2006-07-15 18:43:39 · 15 answers · asked by MS. DAISY 2 in Friends

alright ive been w/ my bf for a year and i love him to death.but my bf now lives two states away. 3 weeks ago this other guy appeared and i started going out to do stuff with him, nothing peverted though. but this new guys become really attached and all i really wanted was some attention for the summer....i dont want to hurt this new guy but my bf lives so far away should i leave my bf and date the new guy or should i stay w/ my love? im not sure what to do, i just wish i didnt have to hurt anyone/....but i know i do. gr please help i really need it.

2006-07-15 18:42:48 · 6 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

I was at my dad's house last week. He decided to be a real parent for the first time and wanted to "talk" becaused he was "worried", but really he just bitched at me about disrespecting his wife and son. I used to get along with him, but with all the confrontations, I decided to leave. My grandparents drove me to my house (six hours). What should I do now? I feel really guilty about having fun or hanging with my step dad.

2006-07-15 18:41:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My parents know times have changed and they don't accept new kinds of livings. I've asked them for a very long time for a computer but he doesn't care.Please help.How can convince them? (we had agreements regarding thi and fulfiled all my quests)

2006-07-15 18:40:09 · 12 answers · asked by Cristiana M 1 in Family

2006-07-15 18:37:40 · 15 answers · asked by sexyladyforyouinthe 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is sterile by birth. Yes, he was born a male. So we have asked a friend to donate sperm. And he's gay.

So many people seem to think this is wrong of us. Not only because we know who the father is and would allow him into our child's live, like an uncle, but because our friend is gay.

Why can't our family, friends, and co-workers just accept our decision to have a child and be happy for us?

2006-07-15 18:37:20 · 2 answers · asked by ♫Hope♫ 6 in Friends

2006-07-15 18:34:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the moment which u think is the most perfect in your life till now

2006-07-15 18:32:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And then when they are older, have kid(s) and baggage from a series of bad relationship do they then want a good man, a nice man, but didn't want him earlier in life? Why do women think a good man would want them now that they have all this baggage?

2006-07-15 18:29:49 · 12 answers · asked by cub6ib9 4 in Singles & Dating

People always tell me I'm an asshole, in college, at work, people tell me, but I never believed them. I've always accepted that I only have the 5 friends I've been friends with since jr. high everyone else are just acquaintances. I'm gay, and I've always been told I'm very good looking, I'm always with guys after me.
My friends told me in a good way, I'm really really hard to deal with. I told them, people like me, I'm always with guys, then they told me, where are those people? I told them, around. They told me guys put up with me to try and get me, not because they like hanging out with me. So I realized guys do only come for a while, and that's it. Right now I have some guys who are being very friendly as usual, but they are just trying to get me, I don't really have much people that actually want to really hang out with me because they like my personality. Could it be that I'm a real asshole, and gay guys just put up with me, but think I'm an asshole?

2006-07-15 18:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by Document Guy 2 in Friends

foreplay or just get into the sex?

2006-07-15 18:26:23 · 13 answers · asked by ok 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 18:26:12 · 18 answers · asked by lillyssis777 1 in Family

My fiance just started talking to his ex-girlfriend and I'm worried. When we met he thought she was dead and recently found out she is alive. He talks to her all the time and has even stopped helping to plan our wedding. He says I have nothing to worry about because they are just old friends. However, he told he a year ago that the only reason they broke up was because he moved away. I've always trusted him, but something tells me I shouldn't were this woman is concerned. She even wants to come to our wedding so she can see him again. What do I do?

2006-07-15 18:25:02 · 9 answers · asked by lizardlover1717 2 in Weddings

I'm just curious and something happened today that made me ponder that more than usual. Plus I would like your take on this...I'm moving on from an unrequitted crush that gave me false hope. I transferred to another job location for a couple reasons including mainly him. Today was my last day so I wrote out cards and gave him one saying that I want to leave without us having hard feelings toward each other. Well, we talked a little, told each other we weren't mad and even hugged each other. Well, then I just blurted that one of the main reasons I left was because I still had feelings for him...that was just stupid and just came out of nowhere. He just turned away from me and started typing and said okay. That's all he said...that;s the perfect example of my question. Why do guys think that word is a magic world that's supposed to fix sticky situations? The best part is a few mins later he starts joking and giving me hints about visiting. What's you take on all this? thanks!

2006-07-15 18:24:50 · 12 answers · asked by kago 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a curiosity about why some men in their mid to late 20's date women alot older than them..... What makes their interests turn to older women and why? What's wrong with women younger than them?

2006-07-15 18:24:44 · 8 answers · asked by starry_night_swirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

have you ever gone out with someone just because of their looks? say the truth

2006-07-15 18:23:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 18:23:42 · 1 answers · asked by rssll_brk 1 in Singles & Dating

yea i'm a filipino/hawaiian girl that has the hots for (young)mariah carey, angelina jolie, and Vanessa ( Nick L.'s ex), but hey there's nothin wrong with that.....right? I'm still straight, although i have kissed a hot korean girl. ;D

2006-07-15 18:22:19 · 5 answers · asked by Trina 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 18:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 18:21:08 · 13 answers · asked by neverchild 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 18:20:25 · 11 answers · asked by baby 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a religious young man that likes to treat my woman to nice things every once in a while. i am kind of religious and i am a real gentleman(or so i've heard). what have i been doing wrong, 'cause the women i have found dont like me anymore when they find out i'm religious!

2006-07-15 18:17:57 · 13 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 18:17:07 · 11 answers · asked by curiousalways 1 in Other - Family & Relationships