People always tell me I'm an asshole, in college, at work, people tell me, but I never believed them. I've always accepted that I only have the 5 friends I've been friends with since jr. high everyone else are just acquaintances. I'm gay, and I've always been told I'm very good looking, I'm always with guys after me.
My friends told me in a good way, I'm really really hard to deal with. I told them, people like me, I'm always with guys, then they told me, where are those people? I told them, around. They told me guys put up with me to try and get me, not because they like hanging out with me. So I realized guys do only come for a while, and that's it. Right now I have some guys who are being very friendly as usual, but they are just trying to get me, I don't really have much people that actually want to really hang out with me because they like my personality. Could it be that I'm a real asshole, and gay guys just put up with me, but think I'm an asshole?
2006-07-15 18:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by Document Guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You may really need an attitude adjustment. Really! What better source than your freinds?
I really could care less of your sexual preference, I just know that all people want to be treated with respect. Have you done this with people, or barked at them?
I think that you can change, because you're questioning how you deal with people.
2006-07-15 18:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Why do you have such poor self-asteem? If your`re nice understanding and fun, sure you will have friends and hey, you don`t have to impress others trust me, believe in you`reself. People will come and people will go, but a true friend" will be forever! I have many friends that are acquainances who will say good friends, However only ONE ever calls me, or has come over which I consider her the only true friend I have! Maybe their are reasons behind this, maybe you dont want ppl to get close to you" or maybe you are leary about trusting or even you just want youre own space" telling about you`reself and asking questions, means you are honest, openminded, and frankly quite nice. Dont let it bother you so much please you`reself before pleasing others. You are number `1. (And yes I am a female)
2006-07-15 18:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Weeny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT IF YOUR FRIENDS ARE TELLING YOU THIS THERE IS SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE DOING TO MAKE THEM FEEL THIS WAY. BUT IF THEY ARE REALLY YOUR FRIENDS THEN THEY SHOULD ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE AND TO ME IT SEEMS THAT THEY HAVE SO YOU SHOULD TRY AND MAKE BEING AROUND YOU A LITTLE BIT MORE ENJOYABLE AND YOU ARE SURE TO MAKE MORE FRIENDS AND NOT JUST ACQUAINTANCES AND YOU SHOULD WANT THAT FOR YOURSELF
2006-07-15 18:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but yes to all of the above
2006-07-15 18:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep
2006-07-15 18:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably so -
2006-07-15 18:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋