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I have a curiosity about why some men in their mid to late 20's date women alot older than them..... What makes their interests turn to older women and why? What's wrong with women younger than them?

2006-07-15 18:24:44 · 8 answers · asked by starry_night_swirl 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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I'm 22 male, I'm attracted to both women older and younger then me for totally different reasons, I like older women because they are more mature then many women my age and i like younger women because most of them look better than alot of 40+ women (although i do have to say that there are alot of good looking 40 year old women, just they dont look innocent like the 18-20 year old girls) there are a million and one reasons for either direction, older men like younger girls because they are insecure about themselves or the guy never matured(my dad for example, hes with a 20 year old girl ugly as sin but shes young...) the same can be said for women who like guys older or younger then themselves.

oh and clcalifornia hits alot of good points also

2006-07-15 19:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by johnperry_rydz 2 · 0 0

They turn to older women because they feel that they can learn a lot about them. I am older and had a 28 year old chasing after me. I am not quite sure what he was looking for but in the end I think in his case it was sex. Many prefer mature relationships though and perhaps they feel that they cannot get this from younger women all of the time.

Older women have a lot of life experience and these guys seem to like that because they can learn from them.
Age is not an issue when it comes to attraction but speaking from experience I would never date a younger guy because there is such a difference in life experience. Not in all cases but the one time I dated someone younger there was.

2006-07-15 18:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I have experienced this many times. I constantly have younger men after me.

Younger guys like older women because older women are more experienced. They don't focus so much about worrying about their appearence. They have learned to accept their body and all the flaws. Older women as less self obsorbed.
Older women can teach a young man a thing or two.
Older women can have deeper converstations. Older women are more than skin deep, they have developed a deep sense of who they are and what they want and need.
Older women are more realistic about what they expect out of a guy.

Younger women tend to be so obsorbed in their appearence that they are not uninhibited like an older woman.
Younger women are supperficial at times.
Younger women put more importance on their fingernails and hair than on intimacy.
Younger women often aren't educated and don't put much value in anything beyond their own sellf.
Younger women put too much value on gifts that they expect their boyfriends to give them.
Younger women give in more to their radical hormones

I could go on and on.......I got this information from young men who talked to me about the "older woman, younger man thing"

2006-07-15 18:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0 0

I don't know about men in their 20's, but I do know that men in their 30's love older women. And just so you know, older women love younger men!

2006-07-15 18:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Blaze 3 · 0 0

Wow, never heard that one. I'd take a girl in their 20s over most girls in their 30s. So many girls spend so much time in the sun, their faces are totally busted by 30-35.

And, oh yeah, most girls get nuts about getting married by the time they're 28 and on, so score another one for young girls.

2006-07-15 18:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'd say that they probably go for them because of both experience and some form of fetish.

2006-07-15 18:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

im 29 and it dont matter as long as they make since of things

2006-07-15 18:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by neverchild 2 · 0 0

younger and cuz they hotter

2006-07-15 18:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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