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Question

i am a religious young man that likes to treat my woman to nice things every once in a while. i am kind of religious and i am a real gentleman(or so i've heard). what have i been doing wrong, 'cause the women i have found dont like me anymore when they find out i'm religious!

i am not too strict with my religion. but right when they hear that i'm religious they run for it!

Answer 1

go to church. you should find some bible beaters there. actually, they are the girls that i was with last night. they had to pray for sinning with me.

Answer 2

Don't make such a big deal of it. You told us you were religious like 3 times in your question alone.

The problem isn't that you're religious. The problem is that the girls can tell that you're insecure about it.

Be confident about what your beliefs. Everybody has a set of beliefs...it's normal.

If a girl has a problem with the way you believe, she's got problems (unless you're in some scary cult or something). You're entitled to whatever beliefs you want.

Answer 3

Most women tend to think that religious guys will drag them into something serious, and believe it or not, that does scare women, but if a woman can't accept you as you are, you're better off finding a different woman, and there is more than likely someone out there who shares your beliefs.

Answer 4

You know that religion is more important to you than finding a woman that doesn't have god. If you don't bring it up at first (that you are into God) then that is your fault because she isn't psychic. A lot of people don't believe and if you want to be with someone like that- that's not going to be good for you in the future. You aren't doing anything wrong- you are just dating the wrong females!

Answer 5

Religion is fine, but you can't "harp" on it constantly when you're out on a date. A woman doesn't want to hear only that. Think of something else to talk about. You can be religious all you want, but don't force the issue on the woman you are out with.

Answer 6

Hmm-find a woman who is interested in the same kind of religion you are, but really aren't there many things in life besides religion you can connect on. You seem a little one dimensional if you focus on religion too much, it will turn a woman off.

Answer 7

just how religious are you? verry?
are you holier than me? hardly but if you are you probibly come off as a ,well a "Holier-than-Thou"
duh!
and treating woman to nice things comes off as an attempt to bribe them into favors.
And as the wise man of the west(Luis lAmoure) said"Women admire gentlemen and sleep with knaves"
Some other smart wrote"know thyself"
what you want from women? don't lie,self deception is a awfull thing,don't ever want to be a "nice guy" that is a harsh judgment on your head

Answer 8

Maybe you're too strict and caged in your religion rules or maybe they freak out because they are not religious themselves so they fled away. ^_~ Keep lookin, I'm sure you'll find a nice girl for yourself sooner or later. :)

Answer 9

Her loss dude. Just keep doing your thing with the Lord. Psalms 37:4 says Delight thyself in the Lord and he shall give thee the desires of your heart. Get grounded in him and stay there. He's gonna take care of you bros.

Answer 10

i think that you should tell them that from the start that way that you dont get hurt... there is nothin wrong with a religious man

Answer 11

You are not doing anything wrong. It is just a matter of timing. Just put yourself in a better environment to meet girls who have more in common with you.