alright ive been w/ my bf for a year and i love him to death.but my bf now lives two states away. 3 weeks ago this other guy appeared and i started going out to do stuff with him, nothing peverted though. but this new guys become really attached and all i really wanted was some attention for the summer....i dont want to hurt this new guy but my bf lives so far away should i leave my bf and date the new guy or should i stay w/ my love? im not sure what to do, i just wish i didnt have to hurt anyone/....but i know i do. gr please help i really need it.
2006-07-15 18:42:48 · 6 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One you say you love, one you say you want attention from. How does your bf feel about you, now being two states away? Did the two of you make any agreement to remain faithful to each other? If not, there is a very real possibility that your bf is in the same situation as you right now.
2006-07-15 18:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by 420Linda 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how long is your bf gonna be away. if its a reasonable time and you really think that theres a chance that it could still work out and you think its worth the wait than stay with him, but if you dont think its worth the wait than move on, but the best way to do it is to call up the bf and tell him whats happining, tell him that you cant go on liveing with noone, and that you want someone and that maybe its best that ya'll both moved on. see what he says, i dont think its right though that your dating this other guy while your bf is gone. you might as well have cheated on him, i dont think ya'll have a chance becasue if you really loved him than you wouldnt even be asking anything right now. obbviously you dont love him as much as you think you do. leave him, but do it nicely.
2006-07-15 18:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by ross e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be committed to someone who you never see? It will hurt, but you should dump your b/f. He's not even in your life. The other guy is. It's much easier to date someone who's actually there isn't it? Long distance relationships never last.
2006-07-15 18:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the guy that knows what you like and dislike put them to the test pick the guy you feel most cofertable with
2006-07-15 18:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have them both why make a choice. lol two is better then one.
2006-07-15 18:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the hottest
2006-07-15 18:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋