2006-07-15 18:20:25 · 11 answers · asked by baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-15 18:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to make it work, and try to come up with something you both can look forward to. When you do see each other, try not to argue about little things and enjoy your time together.
If you get to see hime once a week, try really hard to make your relationship work because something really good could come from your efforts. If you only get to see each other once a month, I think you should email and talk on the phone as much as possible. Then you could still have things to look forward to daily.
If your relationship is going to be difficult for a long time, you may want to consider breaking up, depending on how long you have been dating and how old you are. But if you see the possibility of seeing each other more in the near future, you may want to do your best to make thins work with the way they are now. Your relationship may grow stronger of this. I have been there, I still am, and I know thins can get hard and it is difficult to stay hopeful when you can't see the person you are dating as much as every other couple can. Good luck, I hope all goes well.
2006-07-15 18:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by madilyn07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby,
As I see it, if you cannot spend time with each other and build a relationship then you probably will never have a close bond anyway. You don't give very much information as to your age or why you don't see each other so it is really hard to say. If you are in your teens, then not seeing each other is pretty normal. However, if you are older, then it doesn't sound as if either of you are into the other in which case I would say, break it off. I sincerely hope this helps you to decide. Gail Kentucky
2006-07-15 18:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by aftermidnite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question needs to be reworded. "that much" really does not begin to describe how long the periods between your "seeing each other", nor do you indicate what you think is tolerable. if you said, "I see my boyfriend once every six months for a day, and I can't stand to be away from him for ten minutes" than I would suggest you break it off. However, if you are even considering breaking up over not seeing each other, perhaps you should anyway. Most in a good relationship are prepared to bear long periods of not seeing one another if it is necessary.
2006-07-15 18:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by jkinutah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing of the sort should go on for long.
Decide either to make it a long time relationship, or to break it up as soon as possible.
Life is very short man, every second and minute counts.
2006-07-15 18:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not seeing each other much is usually not something worth ending a relationship because of, but if you feel that not seeing him makes your feelings lessen and that you don't feel the same way, then who knows, maybe you're not ready for that type of relationship.
2006-07-15 18:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on why you cant see each other. if you cant see each other because you are to busy then if you really like him put more of an effort in to spending time with him. it it is because he is to busy then if he really likes you a lot he should put forth a better effort to see each other on if it is because of the both of you then you should both try to spend more time together. if you don't really like him and you feel the relationship is going nowhere then i would see where he thinks its going and if he doesn't see you going anywhere then dump him.
2006-07-15 18:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st you should try to solve the problem, and if the problem cant be solved then you should take seperating in to consideration, it is very hard to maintain an open and healthy relationship with that person never being there to hold you kiss you and you know what else :)
what if you meet a very hadsome guy what are you going to say i have a boyfriend that i never see?
2006-07-15 18:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't think it's gonna go anywhere then yes. but if you two are able to try and change up things so you see a little more of each other, why just end it? try and see if there's any way to work things out.
2006-07-15 18:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old are you and what are your expectations from the relationship.
2006-07-15 18:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really love him then i wouldnt but if you are unsure then i think that you should break up with him
2006-07-15 18:22:35 · answer #11 · answered by *~Rachel~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋