My husband is sterile by birth. Yes, he was born a male. So we have asked a friend to donate sperm. And he's gay.
So many people seem to think this is wrong of us. Not only because we know who the father is and would allow him into our child's live, like an uncle, but because our friend is gay.
Why can't our family, friends, and co-workers just accept our decision to have a child and be happy for us?
2006-07-15 18:37:20 · 2 answers · asked by ♫Hope♫ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think it is a great thing that you are all doing. What a great friend you have to want to help you and your husband out.
Once you have your baby, everyone else will come around. And if they dont, then they will miss out on a wonderful gift.
Dont let your family and friends feelings about this change your minds. I think it's a great idea and you may never have this chance again.
Good Luck!
2006-07-15 18:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by misscanada_y2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you have to do and stop worrying about what other people say. No matter if you do it the right way, people are still going to talk.
2006-07-16 02:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋