I am trying to get a guy i have been myself but i do not no how to flirt please help me.
2006-07-15 18:50:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. The most important thing is eye contact when flirting. This is really the one single golden rule of flirting! Sounds easy, but can initially be difficult to establish for longer than a second or two. So when you next go out, find a guinea pig to practice on! Once you have decided on your target, look directly at him/her, then look away and always accompany this look with a smile. If they seem not to have noticed you, look again and this time smile directly at him/her. At first this really will be hard but once you get a reaction you will find your confidence will increase.
2. Once they have noticed you it is worthwhile having a few lines prepared for when they come over. However, if this does not happen, despite what you thought was a good reaction to your earlier eye contact, why don't you try approaching him/her? It could be that they are feeling just as unsure as you, so it's better to try rather than wonder what might have been.
3. When you do get to talk to them, always remember to be pleasant and smile whilst flirting - this will help put the other person at ease and also gives the impression that you are relaxed, even if inwardly you are shaking with nerves!
~hope this helps. If you have more questions please do not hesitate to ask!
2006-07-20 13:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bon Bon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, laugh at what he says, give him THAT look (i think u know the one). i am flirting with this guy at the moment, and i thin he si falling for it, and all i do is what i've written above. talking is probably the main source though, without even flirting. once u have a friendship with the guy, then start flirting, but until then, just chat and get to know each other. good luck!
2006-07-16 01:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by cutie pie- u ready 4 me? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I couldn't flirt, but men keep telling me that I am a big flirt. I didn't realize it because I flirt with my body lanuage. That's a good way to start because you don't have to say anything. He might get the hint and say something flirtation to you. Watch his body lanuage. practice in the mirror at home making more graceful moves. Also make qute little sounds, like if he walks up behind you and scares you. When you see him keep in mind that you are a seductress.
2006-07-16 02:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about saying you like someone without actually saying it. Hinting at it. The way you look at him, how close you stand or sit next to him. Some girls will do certain poses that accentuate or call attention to certain parts of their body. Like the famous "bend and snap" from legally blonde. the hair toss from About last night is another classic. Give a cute giggle if he is trying to be funny. The old sideways look that says "catch me if you can" is one that girls seem to know from birth. Stuff like that. Watch "boy meets girl" types of movies.
2006-07-16 01:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is easy. Smile, eye contact, laugh and a little touching. When you talk, touch their arm just a bit.
That is all there is to it.
2006-07-16 01:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on what kind of guy it is. one of those macho guys are kinnda difficult beacuse they dont know what flirting is. me (im a little more flirty) ... i like eye contact, small touches, smiles, and more as time goes on. if you hold eyes for a while that you know something is goin on
as for the macho man... sorry, i wouldnt know. i dont think macho men even know how to flirt. be blunt.
2006-07-16 01:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by ross e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best one is eye contact... when he looks your way...look at him and share a glance...smile then look away again...and when you talk to him...laugh at his jokes and every once and a while touch his shoulder in a playful way...
2006-07-16 01:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile and make excuses to be close to him. Accidently touch him whenever possible and if you want to seal the deal, whisper ANYTHING to him...close...slow...and hot. (Breath hot...NOTHING SEXUAL) Just something you know.....
It'll be said and done at that point.
2006-07-16 01:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by mickeycushman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first take your shirt off. lol jk
A good way to start is by smileing.
2006-07-16 01:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by John Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just giggle and laugh at his jokes be yourself the cute girl you are :)
2006-07-16 01:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by justagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋