My boyfriend's father might have Cancer, we're all just waiting to find out the results.
I love my boyfriend and have been with him for almost two years. However, we have been fighting often *way before we found out about his dad* and he gets very disrespectful. He questions my loyalty to him and thinks I should never go out with my friends. I was planning on breaking up with him before we found out about his dad, but now I couldn't imagine breaking up with him during this difficult time. I'm wondering how long after the results should I break it off with him, I really don't want to seem insensitive.
2006-07-15 18:47:10 · 4 answers · asked by cutiewithabooooty 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bush Kills,
You have to be the most insensitive *** I have ever come in contact with.
Everyone else, please have the respect not to answer like that!
2006-07-15 18:52:31 · update #1
Bless you for being considerate. I imagine the results will be known soon.
It just might be a relief to your bf to not be in the middle of a possible breakup. I have a feeling you need to just do it.
Tell him you wish the break up wasn't happening when his dad was sick, but this relationship isn't centered on extrenal things. And that you believe it is tme for each of you to move on.
If he is frantic and says he can't deal with his dads illiness , that is more of a reason to break up. We all need to stand strong enough on our own becasue we won't always have someone to depend on.
2006-07-15 18:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what you could do is tell him that you want to take a break while his dad is going through chemo and stuff, but that youll still be there for him. you think he should focus his energy on his dad getting better, so you dont want to cause any undo stress by making him angry. dont make it sound like its his fault that the fights start, word it in a way that sounds like you could get back together once the treatments are over. if you find out during then that time that things would work out, then start dating again, otherwise, stay friends and eventually quit talking to him.
2006-07-16 01:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by crikeyme_mate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The key ingredient is love for any relationship, and if your love is strong enough, you could survive a cyclone and come out on top, but if you have doubts about your relationship may be a break would be long overdue, whether or not his dad has cancer,, that is besides the point, it will not mend any relationship problem.
2006-07-16 01:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pray that his dad dies soon so you can break up with him.
2006-07-16 01:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋