In my book, kissing is cheating. My boyfriend & I have been together over a yr. Lately he's been watching his friends get engaged & married; since he's 28, this is hard to watch.
On Sunday night, he kissed another girl. It was the first time he's ever cheated on me (he can't lie so I know). He told me the reason it happened was b/c he wanted to see how much he really cares about me. He admitted it right away & said that he loves me - that's what it took to figure out his feelings. He said that he kissed her to see how it made him feel & he said it broke his heart b/c he realized how much he loved me. He said it made him see that he could spend the rest of his life with me.
My problem = I love him & don't want to lose him. I think one day we'll get married & I can definitely see growing old & having kids with him, the whole 9 yds. He's my soulmate.
My ?, though, is - am I making a big mistake taking him back? Is it true that "once a cheater always a cheater"?
2006-07-14
05:05:27
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