2006-07-14 04:58:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of people think that they can't control their feelings, but actually feelings are pretty predictable. If you want to stop liking someone you like very much (an unhealthy relationship, for example). Just cut off contact and turn your attention, energy, time, and money in another direction. That doesn't mean you have to find a new boyfriend/girlfriend. It could mean you work to improve your relationship with a good friend or your mom or dad or even that you throw some passion into a sport or new hobby. The old relationship, like a plant that you neglect to feed and water, will eventually dry up and die. Is it easy? It takes time and commitment, especially if you are really invested in the person.
On the other side, what if you want to start liking someone where the feelings have started to fade? (as in a troubled marriage, for example) The same principle works in reverse. Devote your time, energy, money, and passion to that relationship, and your feelings will follow. As a side benefit, when you shower someone with appropriate love, attention, and infection, often they are drawn to respond back with more of the same.
2006-07-14 05:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by happygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes its very easy .. jus think of some thing you dislike and compare it with the person you like very much ,, and after a few days .. youll begin to hate him or her to the core because once you start doin that everything the person does begins to irritate you its simple logic ... love and hate are one but when compared are completly different ..... such as the sun and the moon ... god ans satan ... and etc // anyways .. heres your answer
Rock in peace
Insane
2006-07-14 05:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and hate = 2 faces of one piece
2006-07-14 05:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by dany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I like somebody today and that person cheated on me I would hate him that very minute
2006-07-14 05:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"that which you love you can also hate, and vice-versa
to everything else you are undifferent
...love and hate together can be far more powerful than one or the other...if you don't understand what i mean...then i doubt you have ever had one of those ultra-complicated break-ups
they suck years afterwards"
2006-07-14 05:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by paL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not eas to do that, but u can hate the person when he/she hurts u so bad, my experience was i hated this guy who dumped me but sometimes when i sit and remember some good things i begin to like him but i hate him all the same.
2006-07-14 05:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋