I understand that marriages are supposed to have ups and downs and such, but I think I would be more content with life if someone would tell me if marriage is supposed to be only so-so 98% of the time. I have a wonderful husband who is a great person. We fight on occasion, and that I can deal with. We also have these great moments in which I feel we connect on a level at which I connect with no other person. My main complaint is that so much of the time we spend together is boring. Nothing is happening. No anger, no passion, no laughter, no bonding, nothing - just blah. If I could get away from the idea that marriage is supposed to be more than what it seems to be for me, I think I could be happier with it. Like if I knew it was normal to feel "blah" for a good portion of the time, I'd be happier about being "blah." So please, people who have good marriages, let me know.
2006-07-09
16:04:44
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emily
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Marriage & Divorce