me and my boyfriend has been going out for about a year and 3 months and he use to come over everyday and stay all day now he barley come over and if he do he only stay for about a hour is he cheating on me
2006-07-09 16:10:11 · 14 answers · asked by rose c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you will never know unless you ask, so ask. if you are feeling something is off, most likely it is.
2006-07-09 16:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Twinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, who knows? he could be bored, or he could be preoccupied... it's also so common for the sparks to dwindle down a bit after the first few months... things arent so brand new, and he knows that you are gonna be there... but, there isnt much detail to go on, here... if that's the extent of it, and he's just not spending as much time w/ u, maybe talking it out w/ him will work... my bf and i went from constantly together, never seperated to 2 kids together and he's takin' fishing and hunting trips galore... it's not a threat to our relationship, as far as commitment goes, but it's not the prettiest thing to deal w/, either... let him know that u noticed a change in your 'together time' and go from there. unless he's a player, or a jerk-off loser-freak, he'll be honest and let you in on what's up. good luck, and i hope it works out!!
2006-07-09 17:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a year and 3 months, shouldn't u know if he has a hobby? But if he was that clingy and all of a sudden he switched, he might have someone on the side.
2006-07-09 16:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not nessecarily first off do you have any proof he cheating me and my b/f have had similar issues but after a year guys find stuff to do other than just hang out with us sometimes its good have your space me and my boyfriend have 2 days a week were we dont hang out. because otherwise we get "sick of each other " not really sick of but too much togetherness like everyday can get to be a habit/chore more than fun that way when you do see each other its like O HI BABY
2006-07-09 16:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of that tells me that he is cheating. You should ask him point blank why he doesn't come over anymore. Maybe he doesn't want to be in a relatioship anymore or he has gotten busy at work or picked up a hobby.
2006-07-09 16:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by cerwenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't mean he's cheating, it could mean he's used to u now and he just wants to spend an hr with ya. Or it could mean he's bored with coming over may be u should ask him and may be u should do something more then just sit at ur house
2006-07-09 16:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so...i could be wrong tho...do you notice him getting mystery calls??? a years a long time he could jus be gettin tired i mean comin over and stayin all day...i say wait a lil bit get sum more information and dont assume that will kill your reletionship if you do. and after awhile if your still doubtfull sit down and talk to him calmly. if he was cheatin he would prolly deny it but i bet you could tell if it were the truth or not. dont fret. wait till you have more info and hopefully he isnt. best of luck.
2006-07-09 16:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by moogleliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hows ur sex life going? personally i also always sleep over at my gf's house......... but i felt very tired and stuff after doing that for more than a year.........
you mentioned that he just stay for an hour, what did you guy do for that an hour? did he just have sex and go? I think ask him is the most straight and forward way..............
2006-07-09 16:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by mcmag B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him.. if he is.. he will probably tell you. if he denies it.. then maybe he isnt. maybe you should go out on a casual date with someone.. see if he gets jealous... or hire a private investigator if you have the extra cash. Just talk to him... if he is a good man.. he will understand. Dont accuse him.. just tell him you are feeling neglected.
2006-07-09 16:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wants to be with you (the way he used to do), he has plenty of ways to do it....but if he doesn't want to, he'll have plenty of alibis to say to you.
the question is: why the sudden change? GO FIND OUT!
2006-07-09 16:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by s_h_y_babe04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would we know?
You need to ask him why he doesn't spend as much time with you anymore. The key to any relationship is good communication.
2006-07-09 16:12:27 · answer #11 · answered by Jennifer N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋