I recently had a boyfriend who was horrable abusive and allways tell me who he had sex with. So he start talking to another girl, so i dumped him, but now he wants me back, whats the best thing to say to really get to him.
2006-07-09 16:10:56 · 18 answers · asked by alicia7davis@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are many ways to tell off your ex-boyfriend who was horribly abusive and always told you who he had sex with, then started talking to another girl so that you dumped him and now he wants you back.
I submit that the best way to tell him off is to not tell him off at all. Neither do nor say a thing. Give him NOTHING: not attitude, nor anger, spite, sympathy, etc. NOTHING.
This isn't the silent treatment. Because the silent treatment means you still care but you're just p.o'd. This is, in effect, saying that he went WAY beyond the point of no return and there's no way back.
Of course, do this ONLY if you're truly done with him. The fact that you want to really tell him off could be that you have some (understandably) resentment and/or anger, etcetera. But if you're serious about this course of action and take it, then you'll have to find a different way to release that anger and frustration.
Good luck.
2006-07-09 16:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by cboni2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By the sounds of it, you have done the right thing by ending this relationship. Now being abusive is wrong and as a human being you should not have to put up with these absurdities. He treated you irrespectivly and he deserves to be kicked in the head. You do not have to say a thing to tell him you dont want him back. You are entitled to keep your peace. If the message was clear then the best thing to do is ignore him. Dont waste your precious time on trying to defend yourself. change your numbers if you can. He will eventually get the message, get bored and move on.
2006-07-09 23:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by ness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you just had a visit with the OBGYN and you have something urgent that he needs to know. Then, Suggest he call and make an appointment with a doctor..give him a random number out of the phone book. Just pick a doctors number out of the yellow pages, better yet, give him the local clinic or health dept number.
Leave this on his voice mail or answering machine. If he calls you, and he will.. DO NOT answer the phone or speak with him..
It will give him a hell of a scare and might make him think twice about his numerous women..
and he will have to spend money ad embarrassment at the doctors...
HA HA HA
revenge is sweet
2006-07-09 23:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason a person would need to tell another "off" is because they wish some sort of continued contact - they need to see the reaction and feel satisfaction. The best you could possibly do for yourself - absolutely nothing, nada, say nothing, do nothing. Treat yourself better - like you are part of the human race and not a part of a lesser species.
2006-07-09 23:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lee 0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no good way to get back at anyone.
It's vengeful and brings you down to their level. You are better than that.
Best thing for you to do is to live life. Find a new boyfriend, be successful, go to school and get an education, be prosperous.
2006-07-09 23:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by kevrob8008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh, he's an arrogant fool, isn't he? You deserve much better, darling. And to really get back to him, just tell him about your new boyfriend or make one up. Jealousy kills people very quickly. I'm proud of you for dumping him.
2006-07-09 23:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by tingaling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the Big Fish in the Sea and You're just a little minnow! Besides you can't afford me anyway.
2006-07-09 23:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?? Tell him that you are getting married in 2 weeks! go to the 99 cents store and buy a cheap ring and say its your engagement ring! that always works for madea!! lol
2006-07-09 23:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Cassie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you don't want him back. After you tell him don't talk to or see him. You have to be strong and leave him for good.
2006-07-09 23:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you were sleeping with someone else when you were with him because he wasn't satisfying you in bed. Demeaning his manhood will eat him alive.
2006-07-09 23:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tzipor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋