I've been dating this guy for 2 years. He is honestly the nicest guy I've ever met- very sweet and open with his feelings. The problem is, I just don't really think he's the one for me- can't put it in words, I just don't picture us together in the future. I feel like our emotional connection is undeniable, but our relationship is lacking in other areas. Mainly, he's a 23 year old virgin, waiting for marriage. I was totally respectful of this all through our relationship, but I realized now that I rarely even get turned on by him anymore- maybe because I know nothing will happen. He can satisfy me in other ways, but I never feel in the mood now. I know this sounds stupid because 20 years down the road it's the emotional and not physical part that will matter, but right now I'm not happy. I've been contemplating breaking up with him, but everytime I think about it I get really sad knowing I'll lose him completely. I love him, but maybe I'm not in love with him... Any advice?
2006-07-09
17:13:44
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ellenpop16
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