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What do you like about a girl that makes you want to date her? What are turn ons and turn offs? what is more important-looks or personality?

2006-07-09 17:10:57 · 32 answers · asked by Rowi 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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the first thing I like about a girl is her smile but then once I get to know her I would go for her personality most of all cause thats tells what kind of person she is and what kind of heart she has and thats what matters most

2006-07-10 15:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 13 4

Looks are important but if she has a bad personality its a real turn off, but if she has a great personality it's what makes me want to date her and possibly more.

2006-07-09 17:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by puppet7112 3 · 0 0

Turn ons- Attractive, good sense of humor, confidence, independent, similar interests, stays in shape, intelligent

Turn offs- Insecure, bitchy, whiny, slept around, lies, not very attractive, starved for attention, has issues

Looks aren't everything, but I couldn't date a girl I wasn't attracted to. I would just look at her as a friend. On the other hand, if a girl was hot and had no personality, I would get bored with her and want to move on. I want the best of both worlds.

2006-07-09 19:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0 0

if it just dating then looks are the first thing. That would be my answer from age 18 till yesterday. Today I would go more for who the person really is. Time changes people's pont of view. I have dated some very beautiful girls. From a guy's point of view, after even the first time you sleep with the girl, things are not so enchanting anymore. For a more mature guy looking for a long relationship, it is definitely the personality that counts.

2006-07-09 17:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Looks are the most important because I am so HOT that if I allowed the ugly girls to fall in love with me then I would not have enough time for all the pretty ones. Why should I settle for aluminum when I deserve the GOLD .

BOSCO

PS - Are you GOLD quality ? I could let you be my girlfriend next month during the 2nd weekend . If you are real GOLD , I could take you out in my new sail boat.

2006-07-09 17:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Personality is more important then looks, but I'll be honest if she looks like a large farm animal I don't care if she as the best personality in the world I wouldn't date her. A good combination of both is necessary.

2006-07-09 17:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by bigsnowtoday 2 · 0 0

Personality and looks are pretty important. Notice I put personality first. Other than those two factors, I think is intelligent (whether it is book smarts, street smart, people smart... she just have to be smart), rationality (not all but most females do things emotional based rather than rational based), physical strength or physical health (athletic, knows how to take good care of her own body, no unhealthy habits like smoking, drinking, using drugs, etc.), a kind heart. Religious faith, political interests are optional. Education level is like book smart, kind of optional, but she should still be willing to learn more herself, hence learning is a life long process. Income level is quite optional, but it makes her more desirable as well as her living quality and living standard better if she has good income.

I did have more, but I do not remember, but they are optional. I think I am not aiming too high or requesting too much, at least I hope. These are just my honest answers to your question.

2006-07-09 17:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

I think for most guys looks and personality are roughly of equal importance. All guys are different, but in personality I like a girl who is funny, personable, but not loud or obnoxious. As far as looks, I don't care much about big boobs or butt, I like a girl with a cute face, nice skin and hair.

2006-07-09 17:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Sanjo 1 · 0 0

When a woman has confidence is a huge turn on and makes me like them.looks are definately more important.

2006-07-09 17:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by RAZ 1 · 0 0

Neither is more important, you need both (although a bitchy beautiful girl will always have a man, but you don't want him).
Looks initially because if you don't know someone what else do they have. Personality will seal the deal.

2006-07-09 17:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by Jim 2 · 0 0

Humor and personality are the most important. Think about what you like about your friends and seek the same in a relationship. Would you like someone who good looking but shallow and vain?

2006-07-09 17:19:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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