Family & Relationships - 26 June 2006

Even though I usually don't feel it, I have been told I am attractive and often receive compliments from men and women alike. Yet my boyfriend does not seem to be able to manage to deliver one, even when I feel I am looking my best. I try so hard to look good for myself and for him. I don't want to become a man-pleaser but the nice words of others make me feel great. It would mean so much coming from him. He says (when forced) that he really respects me and finds me attractive. Yet he finds it easy to comment on 'pretty' or 'beautiful' girls he used to date or works with. I am desperate for him to say something that will make me melt. Surely every girl should be made to feel like the most beautiful girl in the world in their boyfriend's eyes, no matter what they look like?

2006-06-26 13:45:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-26 13:45:41 · 24 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I,ve tried everything like...talking to my girlfriend(cindy crawford)about it...I paid a u.s councellor £2 million for treatment but he pocketed my cash and ran off with my then g/friend claudia schiffer! i even bet my friend(jack nicholson) my beverley hills mansion i wouldn't lie again and lost.
now my youngest of 14 kids doesnt believe a word i say.Can anyone help??

2006-06-26 13:45:26 · 13 answers · asked by karlos 2 in Friends

My favorite color is purple & I do like lavender smell. I like the color peach & that smell too. what color & scent do you like?

2006-06-26 13:44:25 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just found out that I'm pregnant. I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and we are actually in the process of closing on a house together. We are both in our mid 20's with good jobs. We aren't engaged but have always had a specific date in mind. My parents are now are saying that we MUST be married before this baby comes. They generally are pretty flexible parents, but really won't budge on this. My bf doesn't want to rush and have a "shot gun wedding" and I'm stuck in the middle. Any recommendations?

2006-06-26 13:43:55 · 53 answers · asked by justjen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-26 13:43:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for a girl that i went to camp w/ and used to talk to on IM...... but i never heard from her again.... i didnt see her at camp.... All i know is that she is somewhere about 18 now.... and she USED to live in connecticut... but i dont know if she still does ..................... Can you help me.... i dont have any money to track her down.... and i was just wondering if anyone can help me ??????????

2006-06-26 13:43:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex girlfriend disappeared about 2 months ago and I believed she returned to a life of drug addiction.I 'm somewhat still waiting for her to return because I cared about her very much.I met a real nice young lady that I have had an aquaintance with for about a year.I finally got the nerve up to give her my phone number and I asked her to cook a meal for me.I was very surprised that she accepted my proposals.We both discussed about the relations that we were leaving out of.I explained to her about my hurts and feelings and she did the same.She've gotten over hers,but I am having a hard time getting over minds.She told me that she is not looking for any relations right now and she is not involved with anybody.She calls me all the time just to talk,but because of the kinds of women that I use to dealing with I find myself getting nervous when I'am talking to her.Plus she was hurt by a man that she found out that he was married and living with his wife.I'm also married but I am seperated

2006-06-26 13:43:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-26 13:42:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-06-26 13:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by Fred J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-26 13:41:40 · 19 answers · asked by leon_godless 2 in Family

i am a cute young man

2006-06-26 13:41:08 · 2 answers · asked by xxbossxzz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-26 13:40:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have risen above a lot of negative crap in my life, to become a creative, giving, super diverse and very loving person...thing is I'm still fearful in relationships ... (bad father issues: real one killed himself, step-dad was abusive) I never turned to drugs or alchohol but became a recognised athlete and performer instead.The only place I can work thru this with authenticity is IN a relationship tho...and I unfortunately come with some baggage, Do I have to be perfectly healed before it's realistic to accept another love into my life?

2006-06-26 13:40:09 · 5 answers · asked by paradox69 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Are there physical telltale signs?

2006-06-26 13:39:48 · 13 answers · asked by Kabbalah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have risen above a lot of negative crap in my life, to become a creative, giving, super diverse and very loving person...thing is I'm still fearful in relationships ... (bad father issues: real one killed himself, step-dad was abusive) I never turned to drugs or alchohol but became a recognised athlete and performer instead.The only place I can work thru this with authenticity is IN a relationship tho...and I unfortunately come with some baggage, Do I have to be perfectly healed before it's realistic to accept another love into my life?

2006-06-26 13:39:44 · 4 answers · asked by paradox69 2 in Singles & Dating

My question is what should I do and what would you do?My b/f went to 2 parties and the 1st one I had to wait in the hot car 45 min.The 2cnd one I had to wait in his room almost 2hrs;no tv or radio and he told me not to look out the window.His freind tried to rape me and now my b/f says he wants to wait till he gets his own apt. for me to come back over..He has no job or money so this could be a while.I told him he just shouldn't leave me alone.He didn't say or do anything to the guy.I only get to see him 1or2 times a week because of our scheduals.I don't like being made to stay in his room,boring.I came to see him.Sorry if too long.What should I do and what would you do. We have been togather almost 7yrs. and the past year he's changed more.He likes to drink.Thanks to you all cause you all give good advice.

2006-06-26 13:39:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you use a condom without even being asked to?

2006-06-26 13:38:58 · 17 answers · asked by kitsonelle 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to invite him, but when i told them and showed him to them in my yearbook, they said, "No, I don't think you should bring him." and i think they said that because he's black. 1. Should I confront them about this? and 2. I have already told my friend and if they don't allow him to come what do i tell him? I will be gone so i can't say "The vacation is cancelled".... please help!

2006-06-26 13:36:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it okay to have a realtionship if you are avirgin

2006-06-26 13:36:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would u step on them, stomp the guts out of them or twist and grind them into the pavement.

2006-06-26 13:36:41 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this older military guy a week ago and on the second day of knowing him he wanted me to come over to his room on the military base. He claimed that he was lonely and didnt want to be alone anymore. I dont know that much about him and he doesnt know that much about me.On the same day he asked me to come over, he asked me if I would be his and then he begged me not to give my number out to any other guy. He stated that I was his and that he loved my sexy body. We seem to argue a lil but nothing serious. I also asked him if he was one of those guy that after he get what he want I dont hear from him again and he was like no and I also asked him if he only wanted me for sex and he replied" no but i do want it." He has visited my home and ate food and he always wanting me to come over at late hours talking about he need some. I want to get involved with him but I don't know if I want to give it up that quickly and then im horny now too and I dont have any birth control right now.

2006-06-26 13:36:38 · 5 answers · asked by SimplyBeautifulKey 2 in Singles & Dating

he said he loved me.. ohh i wanna be mad @ him but i can't find it in my heart to be mad at him cuz i do luv him to much...wat should i do????

2006-06-26 13:36:28 · 4 answers · asked by cc_gry 2 in Singles & Dating

after a month of separation we started talking again and it's been awesome. could some time apart really have helped? is it temporary? does the fact that i continued to miss him for that long even when i called it off mean he's good for me?

2006-06-26 13:36:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm an attractive boy, 21 and I knew a girl(Jéssica, 13) of my city by internet(orkut) the first contact I made with her was at my job. She passed by me a couple of times, I think 5x, she made eye contact sometimes but very fast. Some days later she contacted me over internet asking if was I on the same party she was. note: at this party she looked at me sometimes fast(3 or 4) so stopped. On the msg she said something like "hey, was it you at the party that day?" just that. So I answered informally saying yes, I mentioned I saw here at the party and made a little compliment.
So a week after that without any contact, she passed in front of the restaurant I work again 3 times this time she didn't give a look, but at the third time she stopped exactly in front of the restaurant with her friends(smiling and talking) so she looked at me very fast.
A day after I sent her another message, saying I saw her and asked how she was, life at all and if she'd hang out saturday...to be continued...

2006-06-26 13:35:53 · 17 answers · asked by www.citimates.com 2 in Singles & Dating

what should i do with my fiance this weekend,hes 28 im 27

2006-06-26 13:35:26 · 8 answers · asked by Monique G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am living in a very small house a 3 X 15 metres one and the half floor shelter. We have one baby sitter,two 3 years old kids and my wife and i. Two bedrooms(one for b.s. and one for me,my wife and my kids). Financially medium income below. Can't afford to pay cash for bigger house unless going for installment(monthly payment)

Should i move? to a bigger house and work extra hard or just let it be.

2006-06-26 13:34:42 · 9 answers · asked by andyraba 1 in Family

he's kinda shy so he probably wont make a first move. so yea. we both know the other likes the other, but we aren't officially going out...he might move to a different state, but most likey not. it doesn't sound that bad, but he's like at least 5 inches shorter than me and i have really overprotective parents. what should i do?

2006-06-26 13:34:31 · 2 answers · asked by BOO! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 and still dont have a bf. i went to the prom with a guy. but just as a freind. i am going into my senior year. what should i do.

2006-06-26 13:34:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The [same] guy I like the one's that's all shy around me and vice versa, well when he's around my other best [girl] friend (they're like uber close friends too) he acts more relaxed around her than he does around me. He finds it easier to talk to her than he does with me about any and everything. When he's around her he's not all shy like he is around me and I hate it. I want to become his freind before I become his girlfriend [if that makes any sense]. How do I do that?

2006-06-26 13:33:41 · 13 answers · asked by K 3 in Singles & Dating