I met this older military guy a week ago and on the second day of knowing him he wanted me to come over to his room on the military base. He claimed that he was lonely and didnt want to be alone anymore. I dont know that much about him and he doesnt know that much about me.On the same day he asked me to come over, he asked me if I would be his and then he begged me not to give my number out to any other guy. He stated that I was his and that he loved my sexy body. We seem to argue a lil but nothing serious. I also asked him if he was one of those guy that after he get what he want I dont hear from him again and he was like no and I also asked him if he only wanted me for sex and he replied" no but i do want it." He has visited my home and ate food and he always wanting me to come over at late hours talking about he need some. I want to get involved with him but I don't know if I want to give it up that quickly and then im horny now too and I dont have any birth control right now.
2006-06-26 13:36:38 · 5 answers · asked by SimplyBeautifulKey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All he wants is to get into your pants.....if you can't see that, I feel sorry for you.
You don't know this guy, you said so yourself. It is NOT safe to go to his place when you know nothing about him!!
2006-06-26 13:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by cjs702002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are red flags ALL OVER that story. Run, do not walk, away from this guy...he's either going to 1) love you and leave you or 2) he's a needy control freak. You stated you don't know that much about each other...be worried that he already wants to control your behavior, is calling you "his", and mentions sex frequently. You also stated that the two of you argue...even if they aren't knock-down-drag-outs, it's apparent you don't get along in some areas, you have doubts about whether or not you should even get involved with him...listen to your gut, I'll bet it's the reason you haven't just jumped in and gone for it already.
2006-06-26 13:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't disrespect your body and have sex with someone thinking it will get you into a serious relationship with him.....I have learned the hard way that sex DOESN"T sell!! If you're horney (as long as you're 18 or older) go to a shop that sells sex toys for woman.........It may be embarrassing but at least you'll be satisfying your own needs, NOT GETTING PREGNANT BY SOMEONE YOU DON"T EVEN KNOW, and saving yourself for a man who deserves you and who is absolutely 100 percent in love with you!!! Believe me ALL GUYS want sex.....ALL OF THEM.....if i could do my life over again I would make all the guys I slept with wait until we were going out for a long time befor we had sex...in the end you'll find out that the one's that won't wait around..never wanted to be your boyfriend in the first place..they just wanted sex...
2006-06-26 13:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use your gut instinct! And I think you already know your gut is telling you that he wants you for one thing only..and that is sex. You know this, otherwise you wouldn't have needed to ask this question.
He's giving you the age-old lines..he's lonely, doesn't want to be alone, wants you all to himself, and of course, no way does he want you just for sex!!
C'mon, Lovey...use your head here, not your hormones. You are better than this. You have common sense, use it before you get hurt, or end up pregnant or something. This "older" military guy is using you, pure and simple. Don't fall for it, and please don't let yourself be used. You are worth so much more than that! And there is some great guy out there waiting for YOU, the real you, not just your body!
2006-06-26 13:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Wise Wench 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM i am in the marines and all he wants is a piece of ***. if he is really in love with you he will respect you and wait.
2006-06-26 13:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by majeco 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋