Family & Relationships - 19 June 2006

I am having a really difficult time.

You see, my wife and I have been together for over 2 years. We tried to have children early on but she could not coceive. I want children of my own. It was something we agreed on, planned for, and looked forward to.

The problem is that she medically cannot have children.

I would adopt, but I also want my own (related by blood) child. It's something I think most everyone wants.

How do I solve this dilemma?

2006-06-19 06:32:49 · 12 answers · asked by Phil M 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I am also the maid of honor.

2006-06-19 06:30:08 · 17 answers · asked by Kandy C 1 in Weddings

For the past year or so she's had a kind of rip in the lining of her vagina. We've been trying everything to fix it, doctors, treatments, everything, but it's not going away. We used to enjoy sex very, very much before this happened. Both of us have only been with each other. The big problem is because of things being messed up with her we hardly ever have sex, or even non-intercourse play. I'm an extremely sexual man and I'm starting to get frustrated and feel neglected. I feel horrible because I know it's not her fault at all and she's probably suffering just as much as me. Am I just being selfish? Even with how things are I love her deeply and would never think of leaving her, she's the other half of my soul. By I miss sex with her so bad and it's been so long since we've had a healthy love life my hormones are about to kill me! Anyone have any real, constructive advice? Input from a female perspective would be appreciated.

2006-06-19 06:29:54 · 21 answers · asked by Sam C 1 in Singles & Dating

Can a 31 year old guy ever be serious with a 20 year old and getting married and have kids?

2006-06-19 06:29:09 · 4 answers · asked by Queenbee 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 06:28:38 · 15 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Friends

2006-06-19 06:27:56 · 14 answers · asked by platypus 2 in Singles & Dating

What will be the succession status of a child if his father remarries after the death of his first wife and a wife has already 2 children

2006-06-19 06:27:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 06:26:34 · 19 answers · asked by lady_glock619 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 17 years now and my husband and I have had problems throughout the marriage but now itis getting worse. He lies to me about everything and I can not handles it anymore. I am looking for a job but it is hard because he has 2 full time jobs and we only have 1 vehicle. I am wanting my own car to make it easier so I can get a job and get out. My question is, how long should I wait after we seperate for me to file for a divorce? Is there a number of days that I have to wait? An no, I have already tried to work it out, it is not going to work.

2006-06-19 06:25:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 15.......and wanted two know what the oldest i should date???????

2006-06-19 06:25:26 · 25 answers · asked by im_too_hott 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 06:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by jk poet 4 in Friends

When ppl tickle me I don't really laugh. I either squeal or just run away. I haven't really been tickled alot or for a long time so I don't really know if I will laugh when I'm tickled alot. How do I find out?

2006-06-19 06:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by horse_luver_wyo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 06:21:26 · 12 answers · asked by BHANU V. RAVAL 4 in Family

2006-06-19 06:21:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How old were you when you had sex for the first time & are you glad you did it with that particular person?

2006-06-19 06:21:09 · 33 answers · asked by Mel.B 2 in Singles & Dating

Should I get married? How do i know it will last? How do I know my mate is true? Should I get married or not-Need help please-Should I propose?Am i making a good decsion?

2006-06-19 06:19:30 · 16 answers · asked by ~*()*~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl i no i have known her for a while in my eyes she is amazing but my friend's hate her me and this girl are seeing each other and no one know's who should i put first??? and if i do get with her what is the best way to tell my friend about het???

2006-06-19 06:19:03 · 1 answers · asked by DaVeY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I seem to spend most of my time with Girls that have the same things in common with me.

2006-06-19 06:17:09 · 8 answers · asked by Bruce 2 in Singles & Dating

Whenever i tell ppl i am a vergin they say " ya whatever sure" because there was a roumor floating around my school that i had sex with this one guy that i like and well why do i bother saying anyhting

2006-06-19 06:16:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 06:15:56 · 36 answers · asked by vahid_khuraiya 1 in Family

I know some families that do. Are some people more fertile than others or do they not use birth control ever?

2006-06-19 06:14:55 · 31 answers · asked by E_J 2 in Family

it helps to know what i shouldNT give to my bf this year, i mean i like giving cute little gifts, but its going to be 4 years and i dont want to go around making him hearts and him thinking, 'oh my..not another pillow heart' type of thing.

you can also add whats the worst and best gift ever given from your gf?

2006-06-19 06:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by sueet2b 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 06:10:59 · 5 answers · asked by katie02112003 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If I kiss him, she tries to stroke his hair or massage his back. If he is hugging me, then she will come by and kiss him on the forehead and say “I love you.” My husband has noticed it too, I think she has issues with her son paying attention to me more than her.

Also she has hated me since the day my husband met me. She is not married, doesn’t really have friends or hobbies, and has only one child (my husband). She acts like I am some mistress that stole her husband. It’s not our fault she relied on my husband for her emotional needs, that is her fault for becoming dependent on her child.

Why can’t she be happy that her son found another woman he loves more and puts first before anyone else in his life? She seems to think her feelings and needs should come before mine, she acts like my husband should be loyal to HER and not me. Why can't she be proud of her son he is a loving husband instead of thinking about her own loss of her source of companionship?

2006-06-19 06:10:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i had these friends at skool who were the type that bitches behind your back and backstabs.but only one of them was alright.we've been having costant breaks ups and makes ups and it was driving me insane!then i cut off completely from them but now, i don't really have friends i can hang around with. i feel so lonely, especially seeing everyone else having a good time with their friends.i can't sleep properly at night and im depressed by day,i don't know what to do. did i make the wrong decision?

2006-06-19 06:07:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Would you see it as a challenge or a handicap?

2006-06-19 06:04:31 · 14 answers · asked by woodybmi 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 06:04:28 · 10 answers · asked by DmanLT21 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 06:03:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been having a long distance relationship with my bf for 5 months. Before, he would email me all the time, and we would talk on the phone as much as possible. Since Friday past, he hasn't responded to any of my emails and usually won't answer when I call and when he did answer, he said he was at work and that he would call me back later, which he didn't. He said he is busy alot lately. We talked on the phone Thursday night and eveything was best kind. He tells me he can't wait to marry me and have kids with me and constantly tells me he loves me. He is 17 and I'm 22. Does it seem like he is trying to break up with me, or maybe he is really busy?

2006-06-19 06:03:06 · 23 answers · asked by angel_girl2248 4 in Singles & Dating

Thinking of David and Daniel, but you all have anymore twin name suggestions i would love to hear them. thank you

2006-06-19 06:02:57 · 18 answers · asked by lovenatbug 1 in Family