i had these friends at skool who were the type that bitches behind your back and backstabs.but only one of them was alright.we've been having costant breaks ups and makes ups and it was driving me insane!then i cut off completely from them but now, i don't really have friends i can hang around with. i feel so lonely, especially seeing everyone else having a good time with their friends.i can't sleep properly at night and im depressed by day,i don't know what to do. did i make the wrong decision?
2006-06-19 06:07:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you did not by any means make the wrong decisions. You do not need to deal with other peoples BS... and if they were always upsetting u and getting fights with you, you dont need that either. If you are lonely, find something u enjoy to do and and join a club, or join a team. Those friends that u ditched will never be true friends and you thankfully realized that dont go back... one day you'll be happy you didt.. but they will always be miserable!
2006-06-19 06:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by moomoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! It's better to be alone for a little while and regroup than it is to ever put up with people who treat you badly all the while calling themselves your friends. You sound like the kind of person who values friendship for what it should be - a caring and fun relationship between people who enjoy each other's company, learn from one another, appreciate each other's differences and take care of each other. You've done the right thing in removing yourself from the charade that those biatches obviously call friendship. You were smart enough to say enough is enough. Be proud of your decision to treat yourself with some respect, hold your head high and appreciate the alone time while you have it. The world is huge, so keep meeting new people and going new places, and treat people the way you want to be treated - you'll be a social butterfly with the world's greatest friends in NO time, so don't settle for anything less!
2006-06-19 13:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by kiddprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying joining a club, a sports team, or volunteering in the community to meet some new friends.
Friends don't backstab and talk behind your back. These people are not good for you. Find some who can treat you with the respect you deserve.
2006-06-19 13:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to have no friends than the wrong kind of friends. Sounds like you have the wrong kind of friends. Get some friends that don't do those things.
2006-06-19 13:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you didn't make wrong decision, join a club, disco, library or something and there you will meet new friends.
2006-06-19 13:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by delboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some real/good friends who make you feel good and you can have fun with!
2006-06-19 13:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wipe the slate clean and get some new "friends".
2006-06-19 13:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you did the right thing, they where not really your friends, just wait your real friends will show up, and cheer up it will be ok
2006-06-19 13:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by truckinglove22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like the backstabbers the way they are. No matter how they act you are so attatched because they'er your bitches and not Just bitches. Wat can i say. They're your friends.
2006-06-19 13:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋