When ppl tickle me I don't really laugh. I either squeal or just run away. I haven't really been tickled alot or for a long time so I don't really know if I will laugh when I'm tickled alot. How do I find out?
2006-06-19 06:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by horse_luver_wyo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really want to find out, you need to ask either a trusted friend or a lover to help you explore your ticklishness and your ability to handle playful tickling.
I would highly recommend that you allow them to restrain you with comfortable restraints so that you will not be able to block or pull away - you will have to trust that they will respect you and not take you too far. Before you begin the tickling encounter, discuss a safeword. The safeword might be the name of a pet or any other meaningful word which you will not forget. Just don't use STOP or WAIT because your partner might stop when you really don't want him/her to stop.
Have your tickle partner gently explore every inch of your feet. See where you are most ticklish there. Is it the soles and arches? The sides of your feet? The tops of your feet? Under your toes? On top of your toes? As he/she tickles you, try as hard as you can to laugh and enjoy it without using your safeword.
Have your partner explore your legs for ticklish sensations. Then your stomach, sides and armpits.
If you enjoy the experience, you will learn what many of us already know - tickling, when done with respect, trust and affection, can be wonderfully invigorating and a lot of fun.
It is also a proven fact that when you are enjoying a fun tickling, you are also benefiting from the release of endorphins which are
flooding through your body acting as natural opiates and making you feel good. This is only true when you are enjoying the ticking. You would most likely be too angry and upset to get the benefit of the endorphins if the person tickling you did not have your consent and would not stop.
If you do not have a friend or lover who you trust to tickle you, you can go to http://www.ticklingforum.com/ to meet men and women in the tickling scene. You can also go to www.myspace.com and go to the groups section. There are several groups dealing with tickling and I am sure that you can find somebody there as well. You can always contact me, too! ;)
2006-06-22 19:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have someone you really trust tickle you so that they will stop when you need/want.
2006-06-19 14:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we will have to find out some day in your future sorry im to old for you now
2006-06-19 14:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, someone in your past over did it and made you feel uncomfortable. there's nothing wrong with it. i hated too.
2006-06-19 13:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋